25 GOB STOPPING COMEBACKS FOR INSENSITIVE NITWITS

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Most of the time, those of us who live with chronic pain befriend and are related to individuals who try to understand why we feel what we do, but not always. There seems to be an unwritten rule that we run into insensitive nitwits when we do not feel like dealing with them. Do we become magnetic when we’re having a down day or a rough time? “Come one, come all, jump into my business and feel free to ask me hyper personal questions about my health, my body and my private life.” Quite often, unfortunately, relationships suffer from this degree of insensitivity exhibited by others, and we reach a point of exhaustion, frustration and yes, anger. Isn’t life difficult enough? I would like you to put tongue-in-cheek and join me as we explore the possibilities of smart-ass answers to dull, insensitive questions. If you find the term nitwits offensive or politically incorrect, we could call these individuals empathy deficient. Is that better? Let’s look at a few of the phrases they say to us.

 

WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS GOING TO THE DOCTOR?

You should see my doctor…what a hunk. He looks just like Tom Selleck and Matt Damon rolled into one luscious man. That’s why I go as often as possible. And girl, don’t even ask me about those days the stirrups are pulled out on the exam table!

I love the soft, comfortable couches in the waiting room and the unequivocal exposure you can get to every current virus. It’s kind of a Russian roulette for the chronically ill.

If you whine and carryon a bit, you can get a cherry sucker and if you throw a hissy-fit, you can even get a balloon…on a string. I’m waiting for Medicare to pay for helium balloons.

Oh, I don’t know. I’ve come to think of it as my home away from home where they always weigh you and ask you your age; does it get any better than that?

Only a trip to the laboratory can make it better, all those needles and those tiny little cups, oh my, the thrill of it all.

 

WHY ARE YOU LIMPING?

Oh, you should try it. If you walk slowly enough and carry a cup, people will throw change into it.

I’ve got rhythm.

I’m keeping my knees dry.

I have a steroid suppository “in”; you should try it.

I get more wear out of my shoes.

My underwear is too large and/or tight and I’m too cheap to buy new ones.

I have this nervous habit of chewing on my toenails.

 

WHY DON’T YOU WORK ANYMORE?

Oh, as an RN, I got written up for lying down next to my patients.

It was against the health code for me to crawl up the hall while making rounds.

Once too often, while on duty in the Emergency Room, I found myself saying, “So? You think you’re sick!”

I figured out I was taking more of my own medications than I was giving to most of my patients.

I couldn’t get out of the car when I got home after an eight hour shift.

 

BUT YOU DON’T LOOK SICK!

I know, it’s all inside trying to get out, better stand back a bit. This could get ugly.

I don’t think it’s contagious but we could find out; how about a hug?

Oh, I know, it’s the result of fifteen plastic surgeries and an hour in make-up every morning; what a blessing.

I’m bionic, but keep it to yourself; the truth is I’m from another planet. Shhh…

Maybe if you could give me a description of what sick looks like to you, I could give it a try.

 

MAYBE YOU THINK ABOUT IT TOO MUCH.  JUST DON’T THINK ABOUT IT.

I tried not thinking about it until the accident. It involved a very sharp ax therefore my lawyer says I can’t talk about it.

I do believe in positive thinking but the first premise is staying away from negative people; as a result, I’m going miss you.

I tried going to a Swami, then a hypnotist and Dr. Phil; but had to give up when it came to the witch doctor. All those feathers, you know I’m allergic.

 

Okay dear fellow chronic pain sufferers, go forth and know you are fully armed with answers for most questions directed to you by nitwits, numbskulls and morons. Some of them are relatives unfortunately, some “used to be” friends and some are medical personnel. I hope you avoid all three. These probably could fit onto a couple of 3X5 cards for your pocket or purse. You could also consider having them tattooed on some part of your body but that just means more needles and who knows, you may have a few of your own comeback remarks to add to this list. Good luck and go for it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

194 thoughts on “25 GOB STOPPING COMEBACKS FOR INSENSITIVE NITWITS”

  1. Sue
    Love it….I can relate to how a few of those can be used!
    ANd I can see a few faces in receipt! Love the prescription for what being sick looks like.

    Well my dad got home his ct brain scan showed normal.im just working on the best way to handle it all
    It’s so controlling…so I think I’ll jUst do nowt..got stuff to do for us for next few days anyway.drs apps hosp apps etc. maybe try going to coast this w.end it looks set to be nice.
    Just go on as normal and see how it goes…I don’t think he will do it again for a while .

    Lyn
    Maybe your throat just got irritated with the dust and smells of paint.i know mine does
    Jen
    Hope you had a good day with your guests.
    All best to all. Chris

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    • Chris, Hope you enjoyed this. Sounds very wise to let him be. Once he understands you have him figured out it should get better, as long as he knows you still love and care about him. Surely he knows that by now without you having to repeat the process over and over. This whole growing old sucks and not just for the elderly but for the whole family. I pray you and I will behave better, don’t you? Hope you get to the coast this weekend, also. Love you, Sue

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  2. Well outside windows to clean today…its 3 am Here…hubby will do ones with no bending and me the rest…then insides next day…that’s the plan….Huh!
    Fancy those animals causing these problems at the river…nature gone mad..we just get the odd seal here.up as far as the town and people get excited taking photos.On the coast there is an island full of seals and there are boat trips every day there,even in winter

    Well gonna try and get back to sleep
    Chris

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    • Chris, seals are so cute and playful but these sea lions weigh upwards of 500 lbs and break the docks. They also have teeth…
      I love clean windows in the spring. Can’t have many of them but still love to let that sunshine in. Sue

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  3. Sue:
    I know there are storied behind a few of your responses there. And truth. I love it ! You left one out though….”You just have to work thru it” As if the pain will go away if you do more. Trust me, I know from experience, it don’t !
    Chris, glad you got things in perspective. Keep that chin up girl !

    Well, I got out and went to town today. Got gas in the truck and in the gas can for the mower. To the bank, feed store, and picked up some heavy duty weed killer for all the honeysuckle vines on the fences. Good as it smells, it is murder on fence lines. Came home and changed the bed, drug the field again, then decided I had done enough. Oh well, I did wash the dogs, that is part of changing the bed 🙂
    Hope you all had a good day. I am feeling much better. Still coughing, but getting there. Sunny beautiful day. Hoping for a repeat tomorrow.
    Night Night
    Tonie

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    • Tonie, wow. I think that’s an amazing amount to get done as badly as you’ve been feeling, but that’s not the first time you’ve amazed me. Oh yes, those old work mates of yours in AZ were always giving you that bunk. Glad they and that time are part of your past. I suspect you’ll feel tomorrow as it soaks into thos sore muscles but when it does, congratulate yourself on all you got accomplished.
      I think people can be amazing…and we’ve heard most of these questions.
      Glad you had a sunny day. We had a half and half day. I went to the dentist and it was not comfortable but over now so glad for that. Our son will be coming tomorrow. Looking forward to seeing him.
      Have a restful night dear friend. Sue

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    • Lyn dear, well, I guess it did unleash the evil little monster in me. Every one in awhile it does need to get out. How’re you doing? Recovered from the weekend yet? Love you, Sue

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  5. HA HA….LOVED IT, BRILLIANT….STILL LAUGHING AND THINKING OF ALL THE DIFFERENT SONGS I COULD SET THOSE WORDS TO…………HOPE YOU ARE ALL WELL, WILL HAVE TO CATCH UP LATER, GUESTS COMING, SO MCH TO DO, AND GOT A BIG FAVOUR TO ASK OF THEM….HOPE IT PAYS OFF……TELL YOU LATER…LOVE TO ALL……….JENNIE XX

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    • Jennie, Good to hear you liked the blog. Sounds like you have a busy day planned. Hope it all goes as you plan and that you enjoy your friends.
      I think setting some of these ideas to music is just grand. Then we could burst into song when confronted by some rude individual. How about instead of I WANNA HOLD YOUR HAND, we burst out to the same tune and sing, WHY DON’T YOU SHUT YOUR MOUTH? I know some of them are a bit edgy but it just goes along with how many of us feel on a daily basis. Well dear girl, have a great day, try to sit a bit more and rest while enjoying. Love, Sue

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  6. Morning all:
    Well Sue, I slept thru the night !! A little sore, not much. I could use the dry sauna about now. Bake this cold the rest of the way away ! It is raining here, but warm. THANK YOU LORD ! So the flower seeds I planted will get water today, and the grass seeds from the other week. Glad you are getting more time with your son. I did get a call from mine on Easter. But his time is consumed with his wife and her Lymes disease and his band. Lord knows when i will ever see him 🙂 Do enjoy your time with him. ANd rest whilst you do it.
    I must make me some more coffee, I am off to pick up posts for my projects soon . Clean bed, body and dogs …I am so comfy this am and hearing the patter of rain makes me just want to stay here a while !
    Have a great day all
    Love
    Tonie

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    • Tonie, so pleased you got through yesterday unscathed and only a little bit sore. How fine for all of those little seeds to get some spring water. Maybe spring has finally arrived for you. Sure hope so…it’s long overdue. My goodness, you all sound so clean and ready to meet the day. Hope it goes well. Be careful with those posts, okay? I know, I know. Too much smothering. We all just want to show our concern.
      I know your DIL seems to be making a great deal out of her illness right now which is unfortunate unless she is using that energy to get the smartest medical help she can get. Hope she is doing that. She’s got a house full of children to look after and I don’t know how your son can handle it all.
      Well, with our son coming and GS coming over after school, I need to do a bit but not much. I’ll make room for him to get into the guest bed, maybe go to the bakery and get some goodies. There’s a date, oat, nut cookie he particularly likes from there. They are good. I’ve been trying to avoid sweets so Jim could lose a bit of weight and to protect my poor teeth. Mouth not too sore after trip to same yesterday but it sure did a number on my sitter. Fell asleep early after an hour and a half at the tooth man. Well, onward and occasionally upward. Love ya, Sue

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      • Sue:
        DIL has the symptomology virus. EVERY one of them she immediately had. With the addition of FMS, which makes you hurt all over, especially if you don’t move. I gotta just shut up ! 🙂

  7. Sue, this is fantastic! I see you are as sarcastic as I am! I’m with Tony on that “work through it” crap! I’ve had a couple doctors tell me if I’d walk, my knees wouldn’t hurt. Well, guess what, putting weight on them makes them hurt, and the left one is contracted that I have a chronic pain in my right trochanter head. No amount of walking is going to make my legs and hips better.

    Tony,have you bought your new mobile home yet? I haven’t been keeping up, I’ve been so tired.

    I finally went to the doctor for my pt, my blood was way too thin so I had to adjust the dose. My other blood work came back bad. My hemoglobin had dropped to 7.8. And my stool was positive for blood. I don’t see blood, no red, no black tar. I hadn’t seen my GI doctor in over a year, so my internist insisted I go see him. My guy that I loved retired, and I had to see the doctor I have always said I didn’t like. I’ve changed my mind. When I got there, my hemoglobin had dropped to 7.7. He sent me to the hospital for a blood transfusion. He also is changing my med again. I hate to come off the Humira, it’s so convenient to take at home.

    He explained more about my disease to me than I have read or ever been told before. He said in the terminal illium, where my disease started, you will have bleeding. He said I’m doing a slow seeping of blood. He thought the transfusion would bring my hemoglobin up to 9 and once I get on the new med, the bleeding should stop. It didn’t take my hgb up that high, I’m afraid. I have disease in my ascending colon now too. He said that other than cramping, that shouldn’t give me much trouble. He also said that stopping the diarrhea does not mean my Crohn’s is in control. He said in a true remission, I wouldn’t have the abdominal cramping I have nor would I have any bleeding. He also said the infection I had in my naval was most likely caused by Crohn’s. He said if I had it again, I should come to him. I told him I have trouble swallowing my meds; that I have been using boost, but it’s not working any more. My meds still get stuck in my throat and I choke on them and sometimes on food. I asked him what he recommended I try. He said he recommended I have my esophagus dilated. He also asked me why I had put up with that for so long and not been in the office screaming about it. Well, he did the procedure, and sure enough, a section of my esophagus was almost closed completely.
    It’s done wonders for my reflux, and I can sorta sing again. My alto is a bit crackly sometimes, but I think that may work out, or, I may just be one of those old folks who can’t sing!

    In this 2 week period, I was stuck about 15 times. Most of them were misses! I swear, I think I’m gonna get a permacath for my injections. I look as if someone has been beating on my arms. Sort of feels that way, too! Getting old is rough. Getting old and unhealthy is really rough!

    I need to go back and read the replies for the last few posts so I can understand what ya’ll are talking about. Tonie, sorry you’ve been so sick. Chris, I will go back to see what’s going on with your dad. Today would have been my dad’s 94th birthday. Sure he’s celebrating in heaven. Tomorrow, Rosa will be dead 3 years. Whoever said time heals all wounds, sure must have been talking about physical wounds. It hurts just as bad today as it did 3 years ago. I guess I’ve learned to live with the pain. Or I’m learning. My youngest sister’s widower married again last year. I was a tad upset at first, but, came to the conclusion that she had been dead over 3 years and sick 3 or 4 years prior, and he deserved to be happy. One of their friends was telling me how nice this lady is. Said she was a friend of my sister and it’s okay with her if they sit around and talk about Becky and how much they miss her. I think that’s tacky of them but it’s not my circus, not my monkey.

    The other sister still isn’t talking to me. After a lot of praying, soul searching and working 4th and 5th steps on it, I have decided that, if she should ever call me or come to me, I’ll be polite. I forgive her already, but I’ll never be comfortable in any sort of relationship with her. I wouldn’t even care to try. This was her decision and I respect it as such, but we all live with the consequences of our actions. I have emailed her twice in the last year. Once was just to send her a picture of our cousin who is dying of cerebellum degeneration, and she looks awful. Kathy used to be close to her, and I thought she might like to know. I also sent her and my 1/2 sister a note to tell them that the guy in American Sniper is our Dad’s brothers grandson. So, he’s our first cousin once removed. We know so little about that side of the family, and since Kathy was adopted by our step-dad, I don’t know if she even considers the Mercer’s as relatives. I heard back from Carla (the half sister) but not Kathy. Although, I really didn’t say anything that called for a reply. Carla wanted to know how I found out and wanted to know if I had ever met that uncle or his kids. He lived in Arizona, but he and my dad had a big falling out and I don’t know that they ever made up. Dad’s side was that he had worked some for his brother (he owned a big construction company and was pretty well off) but his brother didn’t pay him. They quarreled about it and Dad said he took a case of his brother’s liquor. I don’t know my uncle’s side of it and never will now. By what my dad himself taught me, his actions were wrong. I hate to think 2 brothers quit speaking over booze, but I guess stuff like that happens. I also hate to think of my dad as a thief, he had enough other flaws.

    Sorry, I didn’t mean to write a novella. Just trying to catch ya’ll up and go over some rambling thoughts I’m having this morning.

    I love you all.
    Linda

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    • Linda, when you talk about your sisters who are gone I find it hard to believe so much time has passed. Just another example of how fast it all flies by. I am sorry you and your sister have not made up but so be it. I have the same situation with my last remaining sister. I think life is too short for that kind of crap but it does take two to have a relationship, right?
      Oh yes dear girl, I can be very sarcastic. I think it’s often an expression of the anger each of us often feel for our diseases and changes in our lifestyle, don’t you?
      Thanks for the update on your disease. I am sorry about your hemoglobin and all that it indicates. What an insidious disease to not even see the signs. Well, it does certainly explain why you’ve been so fatigued, huh? I’m pleased you like the new doctor after all. It does sound like he’s on top of things for you and is in your corner.
      Don’t worry about rambling. We haven’t heard from you in quite awhile. Do take care and know you’re always in our thoughts here on the blog. Love to you, Sue

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    • Linda:
      SO sorry for all that you are enduring, but glad you are getting help on it. Nope no trailer yet, haven’t been able to go and look. Soon though. I cannot believe it has been 3 years. Lord it flies. God bless you and stay well.
      Love
      Tonie

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  8. OH LINDA GIRL I HEAR YA. LIFE CAN BE VERY HARD AT TIMES. I KNOW I’M LIVING HARD TIMES WITH MY DIL, FEEL LIKE SHE HAS TAKEN MY SON FROM ME. BUT BACK TO YOU DEAR FRIEND, HAPPY THAT DOC IS TAKING REALLY GOOD CARE OF YOU. IT REALLY MAKES A DIFFERENCE. I REALLY FEEL YOUR PAIN LINDA. SENDING ANGELS TO PROTECT YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU. WISH I COULD GIVE YOU A REAL HUG, BUT THIS ONE WILL HAVE TO DO. hug hug hug.
    LOVE YOU GIRL. KEEP ON GOING, YOU ARE GOING THE RIGHT WAY.
    XXX

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    • Suzanne, when my son gets a new girlfriend, I try to make her my best friend. I let her know that loving my son is good enough for me, and I love her back. It seems to work. I have had a good relationship with all his girlfriends. This girl he’s been seeing for 6 years now really feels like my own. Of course, I don’t know the whole story and the situation you’re in. I just know I couldn’t bear losing my son, but I’m more than willing to share him.
      I love you sending angels to watch over me. When I was a kid, when I was sick or scared, I’d sing that song (in my head, not out loud) “When at night I go to sleep, 14 angels watch do keep” I can’t remember all the song now. But. angels are very comforting. I’m doing my best to feel better. This has all gone on so long. Over a year now. I left the house only 5 times last year, once to go eat with a friend for her birthday, once with friends for my birthday, and 3 times to the doctor. Just getting bathed and dressed was such a chore, and most times I didn’t see that it was worth the misery to get out. Getting a bath left me worn out, and getting dressed left me totally out of breath. So, I am heading in the right direction. Thanks for your encouragement, it means the world to me. Love you, too.!
      Linda

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      • LINDA, WHEN MY SON FIRST STARTED DATING HER ALL WAS WELL, THEN THEY GOT MARRIED HAD THEIR FIRST CHILD.(STILL ALL FINE) WHEN THEY SOLD THEIR HOUSE THEY CAME TO LIVE WITH US FOR FOUR MONTHS AND EVERYTHING WAS STILL FINE. SUDDENLY SHE SAYS SHE DOESN’T FEEL LOVED BY MY DAUGHTER AND MY OTHER SON. SHE ALSO SAID SHE MARRIED SOMEONE YOUNGER SO SHE COULD MAKE HIM DO WHAT SHE WANTS ( WHICH IS CLEANING, COOKING AND TAKING CARE OF THE CHILDREN AND NOT BEING ALLOWED TO SEE HIS FRIENDS ANYMORE) AND NOW SHE HAS FINALLY SUCCEEDED. I WAS SHOCKED WHEN SHE TOLD ME THAT. WE WERE WITH HER MOTHER AND HER MOTHER’S FRIEND. I JUST SAT THERE IN SILENCE BUT FELT LIKE I HAD BEEN SLAPPED IN THE FACE. THE SAD PART OF ALL THIS IS MY SON IS NOT DOING ANYTHING ABOUT IT. HE USE TO HAVE A STRONG CHARACTER BUT WITH HER HE DOESN’T. SHE DID NOT ALLOW MY SON TO GO SEE HIS SISTER. SHE TOLD ME SHE DIDN’T GIVE HIM PERMISSION. SOON I KNOW THEY WILL BE INVITING DH AND MYSELF FOR SUPPERS CAUSE THEY NEED WORK DONE ON THEIR HOUSE (FINISHING THEIR DECK…..) AND THEY WILL NEED DH FOR THAT. ANYWAYS THAT’S ENOUGH CAUSE IT JUST BREAKS MY HEART EVEN WRITING IT DOWN. THERE IS STILL LOTS I LEFT OUT.
        ON A BRIGHTER NOTE, WHEN I WAS A CHILD I REMEMBER LEAVING A SMALL PLACE WHEN I WAS SITTING DOWN FOR MY GUARDIAN ANGEL TO BE ABLE TO SIT BESIDE ME. I’VE ALWAYS BELIEVED IN ANGELS.
        OH LINDA HEARING YOU SAY HOW WORN OUT YOU WERE AFTER BATHING OR DRESSING REMINDS ME OF ME ALSO. I WOULD ACTUALLY HAVE TO LIE DOWN AFTER GETTING WASHED OR DRESSING. NOT GOOD SO WHEN I SAY I CAN FEEL YOUR PAIN, I REALLY CAN AS MANY HERE WOULD ALSO FEEL IT.
        SO DEAR LINDA YOU KEEP GOING ON THAT PATH, THE RIGHT DIRECTION….
        KEEPING YOU IN MY PRAYERS AND IN MY HEART. SENDING YOU GUIDING ANGELS TO KEEP YOU ON THE RIGHT PATH. GOLD BLESS YOU MY FRIEND.
        LOVE YOU BIG!
        XXX

    • HI CHRIS, HOW ARE YOU DOING? GOODNESS YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH. STRONG LADY.
      I’M HANGING IN THERE, SOMEDAYS BETTER THAN OTHERS. JUST LIKE EVERYONE ON THIS BLOG.
      GOING FOR MY MAMMO TODAY. SO NEED TO GET STARTED OR I’LL NEVER GET THERE ON TIME……
      HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A GOOD DAY TODAY.
      LOVE YOU SWEETHEART. GOD BLESS
      XXX

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    • Suzanne, oh Hon, I”m so sorry. I was married to a man like that. He demanded total control over what I did,where I went, who I talked to. He would even get mad if I laughed with someone or laughed while talking on the phone. I felt to guilty to leave him, for he was much older than me. Then, his health got bad, and I felt guilty every time I wanted to leave him. He finally hit me and I said no SOB who wants to hit me actually NEEDS me, and I sent him packing. It took me a long time, but I finally got enough. How crude of her to tell you that stuff at all, much less in front of others. The only advice I can offer is to pray. I’ll pray with you and with all the prayer warriors on this site, I know He will hear us and make this situation better.
      love & hugs
      Linda

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      • THANK YOU LINDA. WE WILL ALL PRAY TOGETHER. I MIGHT NOT GET THE ANSWER I WANT BUT I WILL STILL GET AN ANSWER TO ALL THOSE PRAYERS.
        HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A GOOD DAY. GEE, SO SORRY YOU HAD TO LIVE THAT LIFE. HAPPY YOU GOT OUT OF THAT MARRIAGE. LOVE YOU STRONG LADY.
        GOD BLESS
        XXX

  10. Sue, I think I was always sarcastic in response to feeling helpless or frustrated; but that is a reaction to our diseases, isn’t it? Suzanne, thanks for that hug, it’s just what I needed. And, it was gentle enough for my body to handle it! lol Sue, I thought it was very werid, I knew I was extremely tired and have been for several months, but no signs of bleeding. Not even smelling blood. Last time I got anemic, my body craved liver. It wouldn’t be unusual for me to eat liver 7 or 8 times in one week. I had no cravings for iron rich foods this time.
    Tonie, I get tired reading about what you have done for the day. I knew you were very ill Sunday when you said on FB that you weren’t going to church. I halfway cooked Sunday. Keith would try to take over for me, but I really prefer to dice my own veggies for stuff like potato salad and macaroni salad. I like them chopped very fine, otherwise they’re hard for me to eat. He doesn’t do :fine” and I really hate to correct him when he works so hard to please me. I made a little very simple fruit salad, with whipped up cream cheese, cool whip, fruit cocktail and pineapple. I even forgot to put the mini marshmallows in it. He’s eaten that until I thought he would get sick. A friend of his came over last night and they had a few words because Keith thought his friend was eating too much of it! It made me laugh because they’re all 40ish! Not exactly kids. Guess they’re some kid in all of us, and that’s a good thing. I’ve never got into his arguments with his friends, not even when he was little. Not that I’d let them fight or one take advantage of the other, but i always told them to “work it out”. And they did. Parents get into these things, adults wind up getting mad, and don’t get over it and meanwhile kids are back playing as if nothing ever happened.
    It’s bedtime. So I’m off. Love and hugs to you all, and prayers, always. I’m so glad you folks are here for me and each other. You make the “impossible” seem possible again. And you make it okay either way.
    Linda

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  11. P.S. Sue, could you ask the wonderful girl who posts this for you if she would change the font color. Ask around, if it’s just me I’ll deal with it, but I find this light blue very hard to read/see.
    Thanks,
    Linda

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    • Linda, no I have not had complaints from anyone else about the color of the font. Perhaps it is your computer or you are looking at it in too light a place.
      So much always going on with your health. Hope you continue to improve. Knowledge of your disease is so important and I hope you get to always have a knowledgeable doctor…vital for your survival. Sue

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  12. HI SUE, LOVED THIS ONE. NOT SURE I WOULD SAY ALL OF THEM BUT GIVEN THE RIGHT PERSON OR MOMENT I CAN SEE A FEW OF THEM FLYING OUT OF MY MOUTH. IT’S BEEN A HARD MONTH FOR ME.. GOING TO SEE DOC TODAY. I’M SURE THERE IS NO FRACTURE CAUSE I THINK SHE WOULD HAVE CALLED ME. MUST BE LIGAMENTS, BUT STILL HURTS. I THINK THE PAIN IS WEARING ME OUT THAT IS WHY I’VE BEEN SO VERY TIRED THIS PAST MONTH. I’VE BEEN FALLING ASLEEP IN THE AFTERNOON AND IF I SIT TO WATCH THE NEWS AROUND SUPPERTIME I FALL BACK TO SLEEP. NOT REALLY SURE WHAT IS HAPPENING THERE. THINK I FEEL GUILTY THAT DH IS WORKING OUTSIDE, TAKING APART OUR POOL DECK,(YES SO SAD AS THAT MEANS I WILL NO LONGER HAVE A POOL TO JUST SOAK IN) SO I FEEL LIKE I SHOULD BE WORKING ALSO. MUCH TO DO IN MY HOUSE. (ALWAYS) YOU FINISH ONE PART OF THE HOUSE AND THE NEXT IS READY AGAIN TO BE DONE OVER. 3 FLOORS ARE JUST TOO MUCH FOR ME NOW. I’M CERTAINLY NOT A CLEAN FREAK BUT HAVE SO MUCH STUFF EVERY WHERE JUST DUSTING THE SIDE BOARD TAKES ME A LONG TIME. I SIT NOW TO DO MOST DUSTING AS STANDING TOO LONG HURTS MY BACK AND KNEES. GUESS I WILL HAVE TO GET USE TO THAT.
    DH & I STARTING PLANTING OUR SEEDS INDOORS AND HOPEFULLY THE SNOW WILL MELT SO WE CAN WORK THE EARTH TO PLANT. MAN OH MAN WE STILL HAVE ABOUT 3 FT OF SNOW AROUND HERE. IT WAS A VERY ROUGH WINTER ON ALL OF US BUT NATURE TOO. CAN’T WAIT TO PLAY IN MY FLOWER GARDEN. WE HAVE SO MANY SEEDS STARTED IN THE HOUSE WE WILL BE GIVING SOME TO OUR 3 CHILDREN WHO ALL HAVE GARDENS, AND OF COURSE MY FRIEND WHO IS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME WHEN I NEED HER. OF COURSE SHE IS GOING THROUGH HER OWN STUFF WITH HER PARENTS WHO LIVE 3 HOURS AWAY. SO RIGHT NOW SHE IS NOT HERE MUCH.
    HAPPY THAT YOUR SON IS COMING FOR A VISIT SUE, THAT IS A GOOD THING FOR YOUR MORALE. GRANDS ARE ALWAYS FUN TO HAVE AROUND. HOPE HE ENJOYS THOSE COOKIES, THEY SOUND GREAT.
    WELL THAT IS ABOUT IT FROM THIS PART OF THE WORLD.
    LOVE YOU SUE AND THANK YOU AGAIN FOR ALL YOU HAVE HELPED ME WITH.
    GOD BLESS.
    OH LINDA ON MY COMPUTER I SEE THE COLOUR AS A LIGHT GRAY. JUST THOUGHT I WOULD GIVE YOU MY FEEDBACK SWEETHEART.
    HOPE EVERYONE ON THIS BLOG HAVE A LOW PAIN DAY. GENTLE HUGS TO ALL.
    XXX

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    • Suzanne, I understand about the deep fatigue. It’s so difficult to explain that weighted down feeling to others who do not have it. I think it’s helped by repetitious exercise to build up the muscle tissue but it’s hard work and some days we just don’t have it to give. Exercising even mildly while in pain…yuk. In my mind I know it’s the right thing to do but sometimes have to disappoint myself. Then a new day arrives and a new challenge with the old body. That is how this way of life is.
      Yes, it was grand to see our son and to have him here even if it was only for twenty four hours before he had to get back up to WA to do his job and then he’ll fly back to Dallas Sat. morning from up there. He has a very interesting job working for a company that advises hospitals on how to run their ER’s. He’s an RN with a wealth of experience being an ER manager. Yes, I sent most of the leftover cookies with him…he loves them.
      Take courage dear girl and that snow will melt. Glad to hear about the new life sprouting in all those wonderful seeds. You’re so generous to share with so many. Love, Sue

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      • HI SUE, HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A LOW PAIN DAY. I DECIDED SINCE I CAN NO LONGER GO WALKING IN THE WOODS CAUSE OF THE SOFT SNOW, I WILL GIVE IT A TRY ON THE ROAD. A LITTLE NERVOUS AS CARS DRIVE AT THE SPEED OF SOUND AROUND HERE. I’M SURE IT WILL HELP MY BODY AND MY HEAD. NICE AND SUNNY HERE TODAY SO SOME OF THAT SNOW WILL BE MELTING. YEAH! OUR SEEDS ARE GROWING SO FAST NOW, IT’S TOTALLY AMAZING.
        WENT FOR MY MAMMO AND WILL GET FEEDBACK IN TWO WEEKS. HOPE ALL GOES WELL THERE.
        THINKING OF YOU MY DEAR FRIEND AND SENDING YOU ANGELS.
        LOVE YOU BIG!
        XXX

  13. Good morning peeps !
    Well, busy day yesterday. Got the posts (minus one, long story). I of course, being me, unloaded the small ones. Then got my brother to help me with the large ones. Pressure treated wood is very heavy. Not bad today though. Muscles are a bit sore, but I was so tired I fell asleep n didn’t wake up. Always a nice surprise !
    It is a beautiful day and I am going to clean out my fridge , a job I hate, but it really needs to be done. I have to take the bins outside and wash them cause my sink is so small, not easy to do inside. But it will be clean and fresh , ready for spring. On my drive yesterday all the Easter bushes were in bloom, flowers coming up, trees getting their leaves. Nature us gearing up. Now I have to get my garden plowed. The guy hasn’t showed up so I need to find another. Gotta still take it kind of easy cause I am still coughing and tired. I want to go workout, haven’t been in 2 weeks. But just waiting til Fri for swim time. THen maybe next week I can go get gym time with weights. I need to get back on track. So good to see Suzanne and Linda back on.
    Love to all
    Tonie

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    • HELLO FOLKS………..HOPE YOU YOU ALL HAD A FAIR TO MIDDLING EASTER….NOT TOO BAD HERE, ENJOYED QUALITY TIME WITH FRIENDS, AND COOKED A CHICKEN LASAGNE….ITS A RIGHT BUGGER TRYING TO GET THE CHICKEN CUT SMALL ENOUGH TO RESEMBLE MINCE, DID IT WITH THE SCISSORS IN THE END, MY MINCER LET ME DOWN.

      CHRIS..GLAD YOU FINALLY GOT TO THE SHED, BEEN GREAT WEATHER, YOU JUST GET A GOD REST, AND TALK TO YOU SOON.

      LINDA…..SOUNDS LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH THE MILL, THINKING OF YOU SWEETS.

      SUZANNE…..GREAT TO SEE YOU ON HERE AGAIN. SORRY YOU HAVE HAD SUCH A HARD MONTH LOVE, DON’T FEEL GUILTY ABOUT SLOWING DOWN, NO POINT REALLY, YOUR BODY CAN ONLY DO WHAT IT CAN DO.

      TONIE….CAN’T THINK OF ANYONE WHO ENJOYS CLEANING OUT A FRIDGE…..HATE IT AS MUCH AS THE IRONING.I WISH THAT COUGH OF YOURS WOULD SLING ITS HOOK…..BEING GOING ON FOR SOME TIME NOW.

      SUE……HOW ARE YOU DOING, ARE YOU SEEING SIGNS OF SPRING IN OREGON? ITS BEAUTIFUL HERE RIGHT NOW, THE APPLE TREES ARE IN BLOSSOM AND THE CHERRY ALSO, SOON THE LILAC WILL BE OUT, I LOVE THAT…………DID YOU START THE ORAL CHEMO YET?

      WELL, IF THINGS WORK OUT THE WAY WE HOPE, MY DH AND I ARE GOING TO TRY AND GO GET MY MOM FROM HOLLAND. WILL HAVE TO DRIVE UP THROUGH FRANCE, THROUGH TO BELGIUM, STAY THE NIGHT, THEN ON TO HOLLAND, AND REVERSE EVERYTHING ON THE WAY BACK….IT WILL MAYBE THE LAST THING I CAN DO FOR MY MOM, SHE WAS IN TEARS WHEN I MENTIONED IT TO HER AT THE WEEKEND, I THINK SHE IS FEELING IT NOW HAVING TO LIVE WITH HER NIECE, LOVELY AS SHE IS…..BUT NOT HER OWN FAMILY, SO 3/4 WEEKS WITH US, THEN POP HER ON A PLANE TO MY SISTERS, AND A WEEK WITH HER BROTHER, AND HOPEFULLY, HER PLACE SHOULD ALMOST BE READY TO MOVE BACK TO……BLOODY HELL SUE, CAN YOU IMAGINE THE STATE OF MY COCCYX AFTER THAT?? GOT TO TRY THOUGH, FOR HER SAKE.

      OK. MY LOVE TO EVERYONE, TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS….LOVE JENNIE XXXXXXXX

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      • Jennie, Thought I’d better get back to you as I know it’s bedtime in France about now. To answer your question no I have not started the new oral chemo yet but plan to today or tomorrow. I wanted to get through our son’s visit before; just in case I had any bad side effects. I think I will take one of the doctor’s suggestions and take it every other day to see how it goes. So many of the possible side effects are things I already have so we will see, like osteoporosis, aches and muscle pains, etc.
        Jennie dear, I am less enthusiastic about your planned trip than the others are. I can’t imagine you making such a long trip when you have such an ugly time just getting to the airport. Your body is going to rebel and if you choose to push it, that is your business but I am concerned. Why can’t your Mom take a flight? Does she really understand what you go through everyday?
        I know you will do what you can do because you and you alone know what you can handle. Prayers for your decision and I’ll support you whatever you decide.Just remember what your Mom has been through and what you live with are separate issues.
        It’s wonderful to envision your home all abloom with spring. What a beautiful spot, from all the pics and descriptions. While our son was here yesterday we went to my SIL’s lumber yard and got a bag of mulch and a couple more plants and he helped me for awhile on our front porch. He gets those gardener genes from me, that’s for sure. In TX where he and his wife and kids reside, gardening is picky because of the hot weather but still he’s able to grow some wonderful things. They have a large pool and patio and he has it filled with pots. Thinking of trips, I’d love to go back there via airplane sometime in the fall. Too hot back there in the summer for this gal. We had a wonderful time visiting and the evening he was here Beth, SIL and grands all came over for take out Italian food. I bought a large, lemon filled white cake at the bakery. SIL said how he knew I didn’t bake it because it didn’t have enough frosting to be one of my cakes. True.
        Please take care of yourself and know I’m always here for you. Much love and hope you get some generous, perfect fit buyer very soon for your lovely home while it’s at it’s most beautiful. Love, Sue

  14. Wow jen that’ll be a trip and a half . Your mum will love it tho. Have you got a sat nav?
    Get lots of rest before you go.youll be busy…..
    Well we are at the beach house!
    Try again!..stay for a few days see how it goes
    My dad was a bit miserable with me when I left.and now he says he has money missing from his home.asked DD did she go in and take it .well.?? She doesn’t even have a key..Then he is now saying the neighbour who helps him for taking it..she has a key…I haven’t been asked yet but I’ve been accused of lying. So it goes on.. I don’t know whAts happened there but he says £ 80 has gone. Hope he finds it somewhere.i didn’t know till I got here
    Sunny day here we sat out with a sandwich when we got here.gives up,to 18c here for next few days
    Read a book sat out as well
    Suzanne
    I’ve put a lot of my stuff away cos they need so much dusTing…hard to do I know ?Kneeling is my problem I carry around a kneeler
    Oh yes the page has gone a nice white now and the print looks sharper for it
    Hope others ok.tonie..and your cold..sue?
    Chris

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    • HI LOVE…YES INDEED A TRIP AND A HALF, NOT CONFIRMED YET THOUGH, TRUTH BE TOLD, I AM WORRIED SICK IN CASE MY SPINE WON’T HOLD UP, BUT ITS GOT TO AND THAT’S THAT.
      BET ITS GREAT AT THE SHED RIGHT NOW…..I HAVE BEEN OUT GETTING A FEW RAYS, BUT ITS GOT TOO HOT NOW AND DH IS PUTTING THE BROLLY UP AS WE SPEAK.
      WE DON’T HAVE A SAT NAV, NEVER NEEDED ONE TILL NOW, SO THE COUPLE WHO WILL MIND SACHA WILL LEND US THEIRS.
      DON’T WORRY ABOUT YOUR DAD AND HIS “MISSING” MONEY EITHER IT WILL TURN UP SOMEWHERE HE HAD FORGOTTEN ABOUT, OR ITS THE USUAL PLOY TO GET YOU TO GO TO HIM.
      ANYWAY, ENJOY SOME RELAXATION MATE.
      LOVE YA…..JEN X

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    • Chris, So you are lounging around at the beach house. Sounds fabulous. It’s exactly what each of us need. Hope the book was good and the weather to your liking and stays spring like.
      Sounds like your Dad is angry and getting into the irrational realm. I’m sorry for that. He may be your Dad but you don’t have to take any crap. You’re not doing him any favors if you do nor if you get drawn into his imaginings. I’ll bet that money wasn’t there, or will turn up in some place he forgot; but will he tell you when he finds it?
      I’m crashing today after the last two days.Too much sitting for my rear. Rest is the ticket. PT tomorrow so must stretch today. Had a wonderful visit with our son, dinner the night he was here with Beth and family. Did take-out. Good to catch up on the Texas grandkids and DIL as well as son. Big storm heading there way right now but he is still in Washington state on business until Sat. It was fun to have his help potting a couple of things yesterday as he loves gardening. Now Jim??? he would love it if the whole yard was cement. To him, dear man, one plant is like any other…so funny. Son and I planted geraniums, ivy geraniums and a lovely orange poppy. A few herbs are waiting to be planted by me. Lovely weather here with such crystal clear air.
      Hope DH’s B/P has calmed down now that you are away. Do take care of each other. Love you, Sue

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    • CHRIS HAPPY YOU ARE AT THE BEACH HOUSE. SOUNDS LIKE A LITTLE TREASURE. SORRY ABOUT YOUR DAD. MY AUNT IS DOING THE SAME THING. SHE ACCUSES MY DAUGHTER AND ME OF TAKING SPOONS , PAPERS AND MONEY ALSO. THEN SHE HAS GOOD DAYS. HARD TO LIVE WITH EH!
      TAKE GOOD CARE SWEETIE. LOVE YOU BIG.
      XXX

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  15. Jennie, you are a gem, and a great daughter.
    Chris, oh my… and the saga with your dad continues…
    Sue, enjoy your time with your son!
    Tonie, don’t overdo!
    Great hearing from you, Linda. 🙂
    And great hearing from you, Suzanne. 🙂
    Easter here was a good one. Poor DD had to work, but DH, SB and I went to DH’s brother’s house for family dinner. I finally got to meet my little grand niece in person! And to hold her!! Such a tiny one – just the way I like them. Poor dear wasn’t feeling well, but is better now. Everyone else is doing well. I do think I have the new stuff with my throat narrowed down. Will let you know if I’m successful. 🙂 Been having a bit of a rough time lately, but this too shall pass. It needs to by the weekend so I can rest up for next week, which will be taxing.
    Take care, everyone. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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    • LYN…..THANK YOU FOR OUR NICE COMMENT….JUST DOING FOR MY MOM WHAT ANYONE ELSE WOULD DO WHO’S MOM HAS BEEN THROUGH SUCH A LOT AND AT SUCH A GREAT AGE.
      JUST A BIT SCARED OF THE JOURNEY, BUT WITH PLENTY OF BREAKS AND A STOP OVER I THINK ITS POSSIBLE.
      SO GLAD EASTER WAS GOOD FOR YOU, WITH ALL THE FAMILY…ALMOST….AND YOU GOT TO GREET A NEW FAMILY MEMBER, I HOPE THE ROUGH TIME YOU HAVE HAD IS PASSING AND YOU WILL BE MUCH BETTER VERY SOON……….LOVE JENNIE XX

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    • Lyn dear, Have you seen the specialty speech path yet? I am sorry you have also been feeling rotten. Why is next week going to be taxing, if I may ask?
      Hope the kids are doing well and sure SB is selling cars like mad.
      Hope you aren’t getting struck by those violent storms they are having in the midwest. You’ve already had your share. Any flowers yet? Hope Sadie is doing well as usual, such a sweetheart. Take care of all as well as yourself dear friend. Love, Sue

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    • See how my Kindle sends stuff before I am ready. It was suppose to say, it looks like spring is popping up for most of us. I had to go for fasting blood work to check my cholesterol numbers. So I am waiting for that result now. Last night I ate lightly since I had fasted. I woke up around 2:00 am with horribly pains in my stomach. I put one of my nausea pills under my tongue and waited for the pain to let up. Of course it didn’t so I got up and went to the restroom. I got sick and vomited for 2 and a half hours. I finally went back to bed and took an ativan and the pain eased up enough for me to go to sleep. I didn’t wake up until 2:30 PM this afternoon. I came downstairs at 3:30 PM. So feeling a little rough with a sore throat. Not going to write anymore right now. Maybe I will tomorrow if I feel like it. LOVE all of you. Donna

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      • Donna:
        How awful ! I hate throwing up ! What made you sick ? WHere you didn’t eat ? Sure hope you are feeling better today !
        Hugs
        Tonie

      • HI DONNA…..I HOPE THE BLOOD RESULTS ARE FAVOURABLE, SO SORRY YOU WERE SO SICK, POOR OLD YOU, HOW IS IT NOW? YOU MUST HAVE BEEN SHATTERED BEING SICK FOR TWO AND A HALF HOURS, MY GOODNESS.
        GET AS MUCH REST AS YOU CAN DEAR FRIEND, AND LET US KNOW HOW THING WENT, AND HOW YOU ARE FEELING……MUCH LOVE…JENNIE XX

      • Donna, so sorry you’re having such a rough time. Hope that cholesterol is down…eat your oatmeal. Is that a flu bug that hit you so hard? Almost sounds like food poisoning. I know you know how to take care of yourself. The sore throat does make it sound viral, either that or it’s from vomiting so much. Do rest.
        Hope spring keeps popping out for you to enjoy. Love, Sue

  17. SPRING HAS SPRUNG ! So beautiful today !. Had on shorts n t shirt. Got the fridge done. Laundry, and kitchen. Sat in the sun while I took apart and cleaned the fan. Plugged it in and it won’t work ! So sent it off with Judy to her friend to see if it is saveable. Guess I have to pick up one. Got the new shed to put together. And the friends are coming over tomorrow to help with the post holes. I plan on going to look at trailers tomorrow as well. Drive up in the am, and be back before the late afternoon when my help will be here.
    Hope you all had a lovely day. Jennie your trip sounds fab. Wish I could go !
    Love
    Tonie

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    • HI TONIE…YES INDEED SPRING IS HERE, GARDEN FULL OF FLOWERS, AND THE BLOSSOM IS ON ALL THE TREE’S. MY DH IS HAVING A GO AT GROWING NECTARINES, WE STARTED WITH THEM LAST YEAR, BUT IT SEEMED THEY DIED ON US, DH PLANTED THEM IN A DIFFERENT PLACE, AND NOW THEY ARE IN LEAF AND HAVE LOVELY DEEP PINK BLOSSOM ON THEM.
      DOESN’T IT MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER WHEN YOU HAVE THE SUN ON YOUR FACE, STRANGE HOW WE ALL TURN OUR FACES TO IT HUH?
      SO A NEW SHED, AND MAYBE A NEW HOME THIS YEAR, ALL MOVING IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION.
      THE TRIP IS DAUNTING TONIE, THOUGHT OF YOU THOUGH AS WE WILL PASS JUST BEYOND THE GERMAN BORDER……………….OK THEN ENJOY THE SUN…….LOVE JENNIE XX

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    • Tonie, thinking of you out looking at possible new homes. Hope you found one or at least got an idea of more things and features you want. Hope the post hole project also goes well.
      Sounds like you are enjoying the weather which is ABOUT TIME, huh!!
      Hope all critters are safe and sound.
      Good for you to get the refrig cleaned out. Hope your fan can be fixed or you find a reasonably priced one. Know you need it in the small quarters when it gets warm. Next…getting your hot tub fixed, huh? Love you, Sue

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  19. Hey guys, feeling better today. Got a sore throat from all the vomiting. I have no idea what caused it. Just woke up with my stomach hurting enough to bring tears. I knew it wasn’t my appendix or my gallbladder as both have been removed. Then I thought about what happened to Tonie and got a little worried. I finally was able to get back in bed and then I was sweating like crazy and then I would have chills. I have had that before so I felt like it was not my heart. I was glad the pain stopped and I could go back to sleep. I still haven’t heard from my doctor about my blood work. Looks like everyone had a goods Easter. I am glad.
    Tonie , you seem to be getting a lot done lately. Glad for you but please be careful and try not to overdo to the point it makes you sick. I am glad you have someone to help you with the posts. I saw where you said you had gotten the materials to put the shed up. Is that for the horses? So you are getting ready for Spring and summer. Did you get to go look at homes today? I know you are getting excited. I am glad this spring and summer are going to be better for you. God is good!
    Jennie, hey sweet lady. So I think that going to get your mother and letting her come stay with you a few weeks is a great thing. I know it will be hard on you but God will bless you and help you get through it. Do you think she could fly instead. The trip will be hard on her too. If she is going to fly to your sisters from your house it seems to me it would be better on her to fly to you. Just thinking what would be easier on you and her. I know you will do what you feel is best. Not trying to get into your business. Do you know when you are going yet? What a blessing for her. It has been rather warm here the last couple of days. My husband turned on the air conditioner this afternoon when he got home. We can’t open the Windows yet as pollen is horrible especially pine trees . They produce a yellow powder that gets on everything. Glad you are doing good right now. Anyone looked at the house lately?
    Chris, hi dear. Hope you are enjoying the beach house. Sounds like the weather is nice. So sorry you are having problems with your dad. Maybe it will be a while before he pulls the stunt he did the last time you were at the ocean. I hope his money will show up because he doesn’t remember where he put it. I hate to think someone would steal from him. Hope your DH is doing well. How has his blood pressure been? Enjoy your time at the coast. Try not to worry. We don’t want you getting high blood pressure.
    Sue, glad you had a good time while your son was here. Hope it didn’t wipe you out too much. Glad he helped you with your flowers.
    My hands are getting tired so Lyn, Suzanne, and Linda, I have read your posts and I am thinking about you both and praying. God knows everyone’s needs and I know He will answer them in his time and way. I hope spring is trying to make it’s appearance and things are starting to warm up some. Take care of yourselves.
    I love you all very much and I am sending all of you my love and a bunch of hugs. LOVE, Donna

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    • Donna, relieved you sound better. There is a virus this year that causes severe cramping. My DD had it. Do take care and thanks for letting us all know you’re improving. Love you, Sue

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    • SUE …SORRY I AM LATE ANSWERING, THINGS GOING ON AND ONLY JUST GOT ROUND TO READING ALL THE POSTS.
      I CAN’T ASK MY MOM TO GET ON A PLANE, ITS NOT AS SIMPLE AS THAT, SHE IS OVER TWO HOURS FROM AN AIRPORT, SHE IS USED TO FLYING DIRECT TO THE UK, KNOWS HER GROUND, SO TO SPEAK, BUT TO FLY TO FRANCE, NOT KNOWING THE LANGUAGE, AND IF SHE CAN;T FIND SOMEONE TO HELP WITH HER LUGGAGE ETC….IT WOULD BE TOO MUCH FOR HER…….ITS NOT SET IN STONE YET IF SHE IS EVEN COMING, I WILL NO MORE THIS WEEKEND.
      YOU WILL HAVE STARTED YOUR TREATMENT BY NOW, SO I WILL BE INTERESTED TO KNOW HOW IT GOES, AND I PRAY IT IS RIGHT FOR YOU.

      DONNA……SORRY I GAVE THE EXPLANATION TO SUE BEFORE I READ YOUR POST…..SO READ THAT AND YOU WILL KNOW WHY MY MOM CANNOT GET ON A PLANE. GOT NO WORRIES WHEN SHE LEAVES FRANCE FOR THE UK, COS WE WILL BE WITH HER AND ALTHOUGH MY FRENCH ISN’T GREAT, I KNOW HOW TO ASK FOR HELP FOR HER AT THE CHECK-IN. ALSO FAMILY WILL BE MEETING HER, THEN FLYING BACK FROM THE UK TO HOLLAND, SHE KNOWS THE ROUTE AND WHAT TO DO. SORRY ABOUT THE LENGTHY EXPLANATION…….. I HOPE YOU ARE FEELING SOMEWHAT BETTER NOW SWEETIE, AND YOU GET SOME BLESSED REST.

      CHRIS…….AMBULANCE MEN NOW HUH?? FLIPPING HECK….WHAT NEXT, AND HE DIDN’T EVEN NEED TO GO TO HOSPITAL EITHER, BET YOU WERE FUMING. SO SORRY YOU HURT YOUR BACK MATEY, HOPE WITH SOME PAIN RELIEF AND A HOTTIE/PAD IT WILL GET BETTER BY THE WEEKEND.
      I THINKING FLYING TO MUM, THEN BACK AGAIN, WOULD NOT ONLY BE WILDLY EXPENSIVE, BUT ALSO I DON’T THINK MUM WOULD WANT US TO SPEND ALL THAT MONEY….BY CAR, I KNOW SHE WOULD CHIP IN WITH THE PETROL AND TOLL FEES, WHICH WOULD BE A HELP.

      LINDA…GOOD LUCK WITH THE NEW MEDS, KEEPING EVERYTHING CROSSED.

      TONIE….GLAD YOU GOT THE POSTS IN, AND GOOD LUCK WITH FINDING THE HOME YOU WANT, THAT WOULD BE SO NICE FOR YOU TO GET SETTLED BEFORE THE SUMMER.

      WELL I HAVE SAID ENOUGH….OFF FOR A SOAK NOW, AND THEN WATCH THE SOAPS….GOT THE SHOPPING DONE, HAD LUNCH WITH OUR FRIENDS, COLLECTED THE NEW FRAMES FOR MY GLASSES, AND TAKEN THE DOG FOR A WALK…….NOW ITS “ME TIME”
      HAVE A PEACEFUL WEEKEND EVERYONE, AND NO GETTING UP TO MISCHIEF, COS I WILL FIND OUT !!!
      LOVE YOU GUYS….JENNIE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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      • Jennie, Hope you had a good soak. Sounds like you had a full day. Funny, isn’t it how some days with little activity can be so tiring. I’m shot from PT but pray it helps.
        I see the facts of what you’re up against and you certainly don’t owe me or anyone else an explanation. I think we share a deep concern for you, more than we do for your mother because we know how difficult life has been for you. Thoughts and concerns that the best will work out for all concerned. Love, Sue

      • Hi Jennie, I knew there had to be a reason why you were doing things the way you are. I certainly understand your reasons. I really feel bad for saying anything in the first place. It’s like Sue said, it is none of anyone’s business how you do things. I hope she gets to come.
        I hope you had a nice soak. Wish I could still do that. I am not able to get in and out of the tub anymore. God Bless you my friend . LOVE YOU MUCH. By the way, the picture of your house on Facebook is beautiful! I believe it will sale when the right people come to look at it that God wants in the home. All in His timing. Donna

  20. Hi all
    Sue
    So good to Have that time with your son and to do a simple task that you could share..magic..
    Well my dad thinks now it was the ambulance men that did the money as he took it out of his wallet and put it in the pocket of his chair whilst they were there…..so he didn’t have to take it to hosp..I just don’t know.its difficult..he dips in this bad temper and then seems normal…he needn’t have gone to hosp.really anyway..
    Weather is great here..but I hurt my back and can’t sit on it so have spent the day in bed!
    DH bp seems to be high in the morning and comes down to normal during the day
    He takes the med at nite
    Yep certainly taking the chemo tab every other day seems like a good start.
    DONNA
    My goodness what a bug to have it sounds dreadful and so worrying when you didn’t know what it was
    I hope your cholesterol is ok.do you have to take statins.my DH has it high altho he is on same diet as me.and he can’t take them.so as a result we are on such a very low fat diet..but used to it now
    My cholestrol is low and DHs is high..wierd
    Well the election is on here fed up with it all..it goes on and on.
    It gives good weather for two more days so hope my back picks up
    Tonie
    Be good to know about your new home..will you move or have it on the same spot where you are.it sounds like that will be the case.you can live in the old one while the other one gets put up. Exciting!
    Linda
    Never thought of putting marshmallows with fruit salad..we don’t over here…but what a good idea.i shall do that next time
    Yea jen..Im with sue on your trip.but I know you would have thought about it long and hard before you asked your mum.but it is a concern with all that is required to do as well After the trip with your back and settling your mum in.. Is there a plane flight straight to near you ,or would she have to change on way.which I can see would be difficult.would it be awkward to fly to her and pick her up and bring back..oh dear it all sounds so difficult..so look after yourself
    Well gonna try and get comfy to sleep…Huh some chance
    Chris

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    • Chris, What happened with your back? I’m concerned for you and hope a good heating pad helps enormously. Rest is always the first line of defense along with heat. Hope it heals quickly. It’s not that unusual for cholesterol to be different in couples. When I first went on prednisone, my chol. was high and Jim who eats butter on everything, salt, fat on steak, etc. had a normal range. Now, years later his is high and mine is low. I attribute much of my decrease to eating oatmeal almost daily. We are all peculiar, aren’t we?
      I pray you get to enjoy the lovely weather and your back will relax quickly.
      So do you think anyone officially took your Dad’s money? Was there a time when the ambulance drivers were alone to do that? Hang in there dear girl. Why does life have to be so stressful, I often wonder. As far as politics…I get so sick of it over here, also. Take care of you two. Love, Sue

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    • Chris, in answer to your question, I have never had problems with my cholesterol. So no I am not on any medication for that. My doctor just wanted to check it. My husband has high cholesterol and has tried several medications and couldn’t take them. His doctor just put him on a new one in hopes he can tolerate it. Hope your bottom is feeling better and you are able to sit up some. I hope you get to stay at the beach house for the weekend. Feel better. Donna

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  21. I got a message today from the infusion place, they’re ready to set up my new med! Cross fingers while you pray! I’m going on Entyvio. Anyone else taken this? I think it’s very new, my doc said his office participated in a trial study of it a few years ago. It’s a biologic but it works a bit different. The others attack the antigens once they are on the receptors. Entyvio stops them from attaching to the receptors.

    Chris, I once sat with a man who had Alzheimer’s. His behavior was much like your dads.. Some days he was fine, others, well, I checked to see if we were still on planet Earth! He was always accusing someone of taking his money. But, he often named relatives who had not been around for years. He would empty out my purse and put my things away! Once he put my glasses away, and it took me all day to find them! From then on, I kept them on a chain around my neck! I had a gastric by-pass 2 years before I began staying with him. So,my eating was still very limited. I would be there for 3 meals, so I would take a boiled egg, a tomato, and a cucumber for my food. He would take my plate, take half my food and tell me he didn’t care what i ate but i couldn’t hog it all. In 5 years, he never remembered my name, but he refereed to me as “my special friend”. I had surgery, and the folks staying with him called me and said he wouldn’t eat, he would tell them he was waiting for his special friend to come over and maybe go out, or she would cook him something good. So, I went and got him, took him to a little diner he liked and he ate like a king. He had no concept of what he looked like towards the end. He thought he and I were the same age, I was in my late 50’s and he was 93. His niece dropped by and took a picture of the two of us. She sent us a copy. He said “that’s a good picture of you, but who is that old man with you?” He would flush clothes, especially socks and underpants down the commode. We had to get a plumber in to dig that stuff out.
    But some days he would be so lucid and we could have the best conversations.
    So, in all of this, I’m trying to tell you that your dad’s behavior is not personal so don’t take it that way. I know that’s easier said than done. But dementia is as hard on the family as it is on the one with it. Imagine living your life confused, convinced you had something –and it could well be he’s remembering something from 30 years ago, but he has no concept of time. I know from my period of confusion after my stroke how terrible that feels. I would get absolutely hostile with some folks; I would think they were lying to me, that they had hid my cigarettes. I thought my husband was in “his” room, right next to mine, and no one would tell him I wanted to see him. AT one point I was convinced I had gone home. I wouldn’t believe otherwise until my minister came. I asked him was I at home or not, and told him I trusted him, I’d believe him. He said “I came to the hospital to visit another church member. I didn’t leave the hospital when i came in to see you. I was content after that, and believed I was in the hospital.
    I realize your dad isn’t this bad yet, but it doesn’t start out full blown. We just have to accept things as they are, set our limits and take care of ourselves. The added stress with make you diseases worse. So, hugs, love, and prayers to you.

    Linda

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    • Linda, No, I’m not personally familiar with your new drugs but send you my prayers and wishes for it to be effective so you can have relief in the bowels. How very much you have to deal with.
      I’m sure many old folks have dementia but not everyone gets Alzheimer’s. Wait and see seems like a better approach in most cases than assuming the worst, don’t you think?
      Let us know how the new infusion works out, okay? Sue

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      • Sue, I didn’t mean for it to sound like I was diagnosing him with Alzheimer’s. But they both start out with small things and get progressively worse. But, Chris needed to know that her Dad is acting this way, not really of his own volition, but as a part of a disease process over which he has no control. You know me, Sue, and I’m sure you know by now I sometimes take a trip around the teacup to get to the handle. It’s my Irish, I think! I hope and pray her Dad does not have Alzheimer’s. My Grandmother had dementia before she died. She was a sweet, loving woman, and she would try to fist fight with my aunt, who was her primary caregiver. She raised us and I spent much of my adult life with her, and even if i wasn’t living with her, I spent some time every day with her. Last time I saw her, she would tap my arm and say “Lady, are you Doris’s daughter?” I tell her “yes, grandma, I’m Linda”. In a few minutes she’d pat my arm again and ask “Lady, are you Keith’s mother.” I’d tell her again who I was. She did this the entire time I was with her. I don’t know how else her disease manifested, but I do think she was not physically able to be very active. Either case, it’s a sad disease and a sad situation for all. I wanted Chris to understand that her dad is ill, and not being mean intentionally. His motive is not to hurt her or anyone; he simply cannot help how he is acting.

        I have read what I can find about the Entyvio. In ways it sounds good, but it does have the ability to cause cancer or a brain disease, but also may cause sinusitis, colds, sore throats, and nose irritation. The infusion is only 20-30 minutes (the Remicade was 2 hours), so it’s quicker. I don’t like the way this place handles patients, they have like two “cattle calls” a day. You go in at either 8 am or 2 pm, and everybody comes at the same time. You may sit and wait for 10 other people to get the IV’s started and no one gets meds until all the sites are ready. I would think they would want to stagger the patients, so it’s not so crowded and the work flow is smoother. But, that’s my way of thinking. It seems all the biologics work well on me for a while. But then they stop working. I hope this one will work best for me because it works different than the others. If it doesn’t work, I only have one other option. It will work out the way it’s supposed to.

        love & hugs,

        Linda

    • Terry, sweet Facebook friend. Thank you for taking the time to send your thoughts on this new blog. A chuckle can almost always be therapeutic, don’t you think? Thankfully, my arthritic problems have not yet reached my funny bone. Fondly, Sue

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  23. Linda
    Thankyou for that post. That is just like a little oif it.obviously worse but it has grains of it there.
    My goodness you have had a time of it..do you still have to eat small ..I think you do from something you said about chopping up food..
    It certainly helps to know its not personal..I knew it wasn’t..but it helps to be told.i rang him last nite and he was concerned about my back and seemed normal…well ish!

    Sue
    My back..well when we were out in the car we struck some rough road and hurt my coccyx …..bit difficult as well as with lying down I can’t sit up so my reflux is sh.i t. this morning isn’t it funny how everything is connected
    Well try and get a few more hrs sleep if I can
    Chrid

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    • Chris dear, oh yes, you said a mouthful when you said everything is connected. Some days I look at my own life and all of my friends on here and feel such wonder that we can handle it all in one compact body. I had PT today and she treated my sitter, sacroiliac joints with a special med and I’m hoping it helps. I am so sorry you are having tail problems. It can be so miserable. Now reflux because of your position. Who said life is always fair? Certainly no one I know. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Hope you’re still at the coast and gleaning some enjoyment.
      I’m still recovering from last trip and son’s visit. Did way too much sitting but one can’t lie down all the time. I’m also having treatment for my wound and it is a bit brutal. No deep tissue massage but heat and stretches which were bad enough. Life just is what it is. Love, Sue

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  24. Morning all:
    Wonderful weather now that spring is here. Have the windows open !! I am going to swim this am and will make this short. My friends came over yesterday evening to help with the posts. MAN that machine is AWESOME !! WHat fun !! It is not a digger, it literally Pounds the posts in the ground. QUick and easy. My gate is up, and all the fence posts are in. Next is the shed posts for the horses. Gotta lay out the area for that this afternoon if not raining. WHat fun ! We were out in a storm, I was praying 🙂
    Well, I found a home I like VERY much. So now waiting to see if all goes thru good. If not, I will look some more. Had a nice drive out and back, took the boys with me. Beautiful country. Saw an old brick plantation house just sitting there wasting away. Always makes me sad to see them abandoned and empty.
    Well, more later…gotta run
    Love to all
    Tonie

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    • Tonie, Well, now you have me happy for you about the possible new place. I see you’re holding back a bit trying not to get too excited. I understand. Wow, I see what you mean about the post pounding. I can only imagine the neighbors must have thought you were having an earthquake. That’s incredible. What a good feeling to have accomplished so much in such a short time. Must feel good. The old brick plantation sounds awesome. Would love to see it and yes, it is a shame to have it falling down after all the life that was lived in it over the years. I have a weakness for old brick anyway. Hope you’re gradually regaining your strength and coughing less. Love, Sue

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    • Hi Tonie, sounds like you are feeling better. Glad you got the posts in and the gate up. So next is the posts for the horses shed. Wonderful! A lot is getting done in a short amount of time. So glad for you. Looks like you might have found your new home. If it is the one God wants you to have, everything will work out for you to get it. If not this one then He has a better one for you. Try and get some rest. Sounds like you have had a busy day. I don’t know how you do all you do. LOVE YOU, Donna

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  25. Hello, all. Quiet Friday evening here after a quiet day. I was feeling pretty lousy today, achy and very fatigued, even had a couple of naps – which is not normal for me at all except when I get bouts of fatigue. Anyway, finally made it on here and caught up again.
    Tonie, I sure wish we had your spring like weather. It’s been rainy and raw lately. It was supposed to get up close to 70 today, but that didn’t happen. It was miserable all day.
    Sue, next week I’ll be busy singing in rehearsal and performances – 6 days – with the group I sing with. We and 2 other choirs are joining together and performing Brahms’ Requiem with the Symphony. Rehearsals Monday, Wednesday and Thursday, and performances Friday, Saturday and Sunday. I certainly hope I don’t end up with fatigue like I’ve been having this week. That could be brutal. So, I rested all of today. I did do a little bit of easy yoga, but that was about it. Poor Sadie would have liked a walk, but that wasn’t really in the cards with either the weather or my condition. Anyway, that’s what’s up for next week. 🙂 Oh, I’m also pretty sure I’ve now developed silent reflux. So… I’m trying to avoid acids in my diet and get that healed quickly. Around the week of my birthday – same week as our work on our steps – I started noticing I felt like I had a lump in my throat which waxed and waned. I thought maybe it was due to the dust, etc. but it didn’t get better. So, I started looking into possibilities. That’s when I contacted my friend who’s a speech-language path. She brought up the idea of reflux (which I’d also thought of) and mentioned a book, “Dropping Acid: The Reflux Cookbook & Cure”. I picked it up on Kindle and learned about silent reflux. It doesn’t have the symptom of “regular” GERD or reflux and seemed to fit the bill of what I was experiencing. I also started noticing a little heartburn which kind of clinched it for me. So, I’m going to try the dietary route. Also taking some acid reducer for now. It’s always something.
    I hear the cats reminding me it’s time for their snack. Will try to check back in over the weekend. Take care, everyone!

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    • Lyn, First of all special thoughts and prayers for all you must feel up to for next week. Let’s all hope you find the strength and the rest periods you will need. I think the silent reflux makes a lot of sense. To be truthful, I don’t know of anyone with rheumatoid problems who does not have some sort of GI problems and reflux is very common. I think the acid reducer will help a great deal. I have to also comment on the timing of all of this after ingesting so much sawdust and fumes with your stair project. It could also be that. I even have to be careful when I use the little hand held sander on my dry feet not in ingest the debris in the air. Folks with rheumatoid problems typically don’t know how sensitive the skin is (being an organ of the body) as well as the mucosal linings in the body. I often have a glob at the back of my throat from some irritation. The villae in the nose often are worn down as we age and they cannot filter like they once did. I believe you already have a household filter which can only help. Let’s hope the acid lowering diet will also help…it should. Hang in there dear lady. This can all be causing the flare and the fatigue. B complex vits and Vit. C can also help with the mucosa. The C should be natural and non acidic, like the rose hips, etc. You also might find changing to all capsules, eventually, will help. Swallowing can be somewhat compromised by large pills and most of us have migrated away from them. Much love, Sue

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  26. Evening all:
    Lyn, it is cooling down some here tomorrow. High of 67. In the 30’s tomorrow night UGH ! It has rained off and on for the last couple of days. But stayed warm. Hope you get some warm weather soon. I have reflux as well. No heartburn, nothing major, but it has caused a lot of damage.
    Sue, I am tired tonight :). Swam today, then had to go to the grocery store, and Lowe’s to get the rest of the things I need for the fence, gate, etc. Saw Judy at Lowe’s 🙂 I had to tear down some of the old fence when I got home, and put up the barbed wire to the new posts. So the gate is in use now, and the fence looks so much better. Marked off where i want the barn posts to be. Hopefully we can get that done tomorrow. I have a young man who is supposed to come over tomorrow and put together my shed for me. The Lord is providing. I have a lot of things he can help me with, and help me not hurt myself .
    And yes, trying to keep myself from getting excited til things happen. We will see.
    Donna, the horses are doing good. Soon as I get a spare moment I have to work with them.
    DO have a good night all
    Love
    Tonie

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  27. Good morning all”
    Well, still coughing and hacking ! Tired of this, and did I say peeing ? Gets old ! Had to turn on the heat this morning to knock out the chill. But that is the Mtns.
    Chris, hope your back is feeling better. Donna, Linda, Suzanne, Lyn , Jennie, all of you. Hope you have a wonderful day.
    Sue , are you over all your excitement this week ? THings are getting better for you and I am so happy. I am tired today, but lots to do. Waiting to see if Butch is gonna show up to finish the posts. Then the young man from Lowe’s is supposed to call me and say whether he is coming or not. He works at Lowe’s and they have mulch on sale 🙂 He said he didn’t know how long he would have to work, so we will see. Hoping to get my garden plowed soon so I can start planting.
    Very tired today. But I can rest tomorrow, or today, depends on who shows up. Do take care all and Chris, enjoy your beach time. Wenchie !! I would love to dig my toes in the sand. My daughter is talking about moving to the beach when she comes out here, so maybe ….
    Well, more coffee is needed.
    Love
    Tonie

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    • Tonie, I’m not sure what excitement you are talking about. Do you mean my son’s visit? Yes, we had a good visit and now I pay the price for extra sitting. Hope your guy shows up for all of your projects. Sounds like a good connection to have. That would be great for all of you if Nikki moves to the coast. How fun for all the grands after living in the desert. What a contrast. How far would that be from you? Sounds like full speed ahead for you with projects if you could only shake that cough, huh? Hope it is better soon, Love, Sue

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      • Sue:
        Yes, I was speaking of your son and sarcasm of the rest of the week. Depends on which beach, but mostly around 4 hours to get there. My helper had to work. So maybe Monday. My other buds came over at 5:30, just when I was ready to crash and burn. We put in 3 posts for the barn. It will take time, but at least it is a start.
        Prayers for you to be better.
        Poor Judy fell down today on a sidewalk, she has bruises and cuts and scrapes. She falls too much.
        Well settling in for the night. VERY tired. Been a busy day.
        Love to all
        Tonie

  28. DONNA
    What meds does your DH take for cholesterol.im interested bcos maybe it’s one mine could take..I’d look into it tho. As its sooooo hard with this diet,used to it but life would be a lot freer if he could take it
    Linda
    I do hope this new infusion does the trick
    My dad seems okish today so here’s hoping it carries on!
    Tonie
    That would be great for you to have your DD nearer AND get to the beach.AND with your new home..wahoo.all change from last year!! Do hope this cold picks up for you .i know about coughing and peeing with my reflux!
    You mentioned your reflux..how has it affected you ?
    Jen
    I’m sure you will be able to sort all out to how you want it to be..you are a good organiser to sort all stuff out and to see it how it is. Just gotta try and fix it for all …difficult but you’ll do it
    Any news on the house sale?
    Lyn
    Hows the throat..I know my vocal cords are swollen with reflux..so the hosp. told me..but I can always tell when I find it difficult to throw my voice..as I have to with my husband being deaf..it sort of feels tired there
    But if you take meds for it that should help ease it.i believe it’s a symptom a lot have ,so I’m told
    Maybe the varnish vapours just aggravated it.i find Gaviscon helpful
    Suzanne
    That DIL of yours needs a wake up call big time! Nothing continues the same for ever,something will start a change.
    Sue
    Hope you find you can do a little of what you want and need to do this w.end.always makes things seem better.AND that. the meds are ok…….
    Well sun is shining ,my back is a bit better well it’s kind of stabilised,its spread down back of legs tho .but that’s one step it’s gotta go thru
    See you all later
    Chris

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    • Chris, I know pain in the tailbone can be so painful and pray yours is getting better. Pain down the back of the legs does go with it but that doesn’t make it any easier to take, knowing that. Hope the heat is helping you in all of this. It’s one of those deep bruises and injuries that just takes time, unfortunately.
      I’ve only taken two of the oral chemo thus far, every other day and so far, so good. Glad the sun is shining for you and hope you’re able to be comfortable enough to enjoy it.
      I’m having a bad day and will try to write more later. Love, Sue

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  29. HELLO….WELL ITS ALL SORTED….OFF TO HOLLAND ON THE 18TH MAY, BUT FIRST I JUST WANT TO SAY THAT I WAS NOT DIMISSIVE OF ALL THE COMMENTS MADE ON MY BEHALF REGARDING THE JOURNEY, I KNOW WHAT WAS SAID WAS OUT OF CONCERN AND I AM GRATEFUL FOR THAT……IT IS DOABLE THOUGH, WE WILL KEEP STOPPING ON THE WAY AS THERE IS NO HURRY, AND ALSO WE WILL SPEND THE NIGHT AT AN IBIS HOTEL MAYBE IN GHENT BELGIUM…..THENHEAD TO HOLLAND AND STAY WITH MOM AND MARGA (HER NIECE) FOR ANOTHER NIGHT, BEFORE REVERSING IT ALL, SO YOU SEE WE WILL NOT BE GOING CRAZY TRYING TO GET THERE….GONNA TAKE LOADS OF BIG SOFT PILLOWS ETC, AND WE WILL PLAN WELL.
    TOOK ME TWO HOURS AT MY PC TRYING TO WORK IT OUT FOR MOM, THE ONLY FLIGHTS ARE THOSE THAT MAKE STOPS WHICH MEANS HER HAVING TO HANG AROUND DUBLIN FOR FIVE HOURS BEFORE FLYING ON TO THE UK…NOT HAVING THAT, SO SHE CAN FLY TO LONDON FROM OUR LOCAL AIRPORT, THEN GO BY LUXURY COACH DIRECTLY TO MY SISTER’S TOWN IN THE NORTH OF THE UK………..SORTED, AND SHE IS DELIGHTED. GOT TO CALL MY SON TOMORROW, SEE IF HE CAN BE AT THE LONDON AIRPORT TO SEE HER ON TO THE COACH, AS HE LIVES NEARBY……W

    CHRIS…….GLAD YOUR BACK IS A BIT BETTER AND YOU CAN ENJOY TH WEEKEND, PLUS ALL SORTED WITH DAD….BONUS.

    LYN….HOPE THE THROAT IS ON THE ROAD TO RECOVERY

    DONNA….HOPE YOU ARE RECOVERING FROM THE BUG….DID YOU FIND OUT WHAT IT WAS?

    TONIE….WISH THAT COUGH WOULD GO AWAY….WE ARE HAVING A COLD SPELL TOO, ANY LUCK WITH A NEW HOME?

    SUE……I KNOW THE PT MUST PUT YOU THROUGH THE MILL AND YOU PROBABLY FEEL WRUNG OUT AT THE END OF IT, BUT IT MUST BE DOING GOOD, BUT PAINFUL, I KNOW…….I HOPE THE STRESS FROM THE LAST TRIP IS OVER AND YOU ENJOYED YOUR SON’S VISIT, WHICH WOULD ALSO HAVE BEEN PAINFUL FROM THE EXTRA SITTING, ISN’T IT AWFUL THAT PAIN STOPS US GETTING THE MOST OUT OF THOSE PRECIOUS TIMES…….PART OF THE REASON WE ARE GOING TO GET MOM WHILST I JUST ABOUT CAN. HOPE YOU HAVE A BETTER WEEKEND MY DEAR FRIEND.

    WELL I WISH EACH A PEACEFUL WEEKEND, DON’T OVERDO, AND SUZANNE, STOP WORRYING AND JUST DO ONLY WHAT YOU CAN DO…………………..LOVE TO ALL………………….JENNIE XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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    • Jennie, Only you know how you feel. I hope your Mom understands and appreciates the sacrifice you are making.
      I’ve had serious rectal pain all week and pain pills that are narcotic don’t help because after they wear off I had to deal with all the bowel issues, like rectal pain and severe constipation. I’m so sick of it all. The mastectomy scar is tightening from the radiation therapy and now they are trying to get me back to full movement but we will have to see.
      I’m in a bad place right now and the visit and the trip haven’t helped. PT is rigorous and leaves me miserable but I keep thinking it is the answer, eventually. Yesterday they put traction on both legs and pulled to separate the SI joints. Then I had an electrophoresis treatment to shoot steroids into the SI joints and wore the pads home. They use positive and negative electrodes. It stings a bit but doesn’t hurt. You wear the medicated pads for about 2 hours after the treatment.
      Hope you are enjoying your spring and hope your Mom does also. It must be very beautiful. Love, Sue

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      • SUE….I FEEL DESPERATELY SORRY FOR ALL YOUR SUFFERING, IT MUST BE HELL FOR YOU, THE TRIP TOOK MORE OUT OF YOU THAN WE ALL THOUGHT. I KNOW ITS A SLOW AND FRUSTRATING TIME TRYING TO GET BACK SOME SEMBLANCE OF NORMALITY, BUT STICK WITH IT, I AM SURE THE WORST IS OVER, WHEN YOU THINK OF ALL THE HURDLES YOU HAVE HAD TO CLIMB….YOU ARE ONE BRAVE LADY, SO DON’T LET THE BUGGERS GRIND YOU DOWN, AND KNOW THIS….WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU……..I LOVE YOU…..JENNIE XXXXXXXXXXX

    • Jennie, Thanks for your concern. Think as far as I am doing it is just going to take lots of time, patience and work on my behalf. All concerns and prayers are welcome.
      You must be getting very excited about your trip. Please do take it slow and easy. You should see so much beauty this time of year. I keep thinking of all the tulip fields, etc. Be kind to yourself along the way. When is this happening? Love you dear lady, Sue

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    • CHRIS……HOW COME YOU KNOW ME SO WELL??? I HAVE TO ADMIT TO GIVING IT MUCH THOUGHT, BUT THE “CAN I” AND “SHOULD I” GOT THE BETTER OF ME, AND I AM ALWAYS UP FOR A CHALLENGE, DESPITE THIS WRECK OF A BODY……MUM IS SO EXCITED, AND HEARING IT IN HER VOICE, HAS MADE IT SEEM WORTHWHILE……I SPOKE TO TIM THIS MORNING, AND HE SAID PROVIDING HE AND CLAIRE ARE NOT IN CANADA, THEY WILL MEET THE PLANE AND PUT HER ON THE COACH TO YORKSHIRE.
      HOW IS WITH YOU NOW? HAVE THINGS CALMED DOWN BOTH HEALTH AND DAD? BLOOMING HOPE SO, THEN YOU CAN HAVE SOME REST THIS WEEKEND, AND NOT BE AT EVERYONE’S BECK AND CALL.
      LOVE YA…………………JEN X

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  31. Dear sue
    I read your two posts and realise that you feel so bad just now.i hope these steroid treatments you have had give you some comfort quickly.
    It is upsetting to know that you are suffering so much at the moment and on top of all this year.goodness you deserve some relief…I want it to come quickly for you
    I know you must feel bad as you dont always mention it
    Traction as well ,all at same time
    I can’t think of anything to say except I do pray it is all better sooner
    Love chris

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    • Thank you so much Chris, I love you for being so empathetic toward me. I hope the same for you dear girl. Love ya, Sue

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  32. Good morning all:
    We have a little frost around this morning, just a little cool, 38′. Ugh, one more night of it, then back to normal. Such a busy day yesterday. Wasn’t prepared for it. Thought no one was coming to help me so I did my own thing , well that was wrong. Mowed the year, and weed eat and fiddled around with a few other things in the yard from 11 to about 5. Was going to go to church last night, then I got a call from my buddies with the post pounder. So over they came and back out I went, cause I gotta be there when they come to help. It was after 8 when I got back in the house last night. Enough for a week. Needless to say I am pretty much done today.

    Chris, my cough is still here. Unfortunately. Can’t seem to shake it. Hope your Dad is doing ok. I won’t find out about the home until Tuesday or so. So still waiting. Enjoy your beach house, so nice for you and DH to be able to get away somewhere calming.
    Sue, praying you are recovering and not hurting so much. I feel so much better knowing you are going to PT, driving, getting out on your own. What big steps those are compared to where you were !! Praying strength for you daily !
    Everyone enjoy your Sunday, and give thanks for all you have been given this week !
    Love
    Tonie

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    • Tonie, What a day you had yesterday. It must feel good to be getting so much accomplished even though it is costing you in fatigue and energy. Sure hope the deal on the new home comes through and that cough leaves you alone, very soon.
      I’m so sorry to hear about Judy falling. Poor gal. I hope none of the injuries are serious although they do sound very painful. Why do you think she is falling so much? Is it due to her neck problems? Tell her I’m feeling for her and want her to get to feeling better soon. Later and hope you have a good Sunday. Love ya, Sue

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      • Sue:
        Not sure why she falls so much. She said she was leaning forward some because she was carrying the sewing machine (heavy)and it seemed like her legs just gave out and she went forward. She has such a bad time with her back. She has to sit down a lot while outdoors. SHe keeps chairs all around to sit in while she works. I think her balance is getting a little off . She is really sore, but no big bangups, just a few cuts and bruises. PRobably today she will really feel it.
        Yes, I am so glad to be getting all this done, but boy am I tired…even still today. I must get out and work on the fences some more today. Should be able to finish them. Still, I am finding no big burst of energy to get me going today 🙂
        Do take care of you !
        Love
        Tonie

  34. Tonie, my heavens, you make me tired just reading about all you’re up to! I know, I may be a fine one to talk at times. I hope you are feeling a bit better and that you soon receive good home news!

    Sue, thanks for that feedback on the reflux! Great, one more thing to add… Now I’ll have to remember to take extra precautions when remodeling. 😦 I guess I should expect more issues when we replace some of the flooring, depending upon what we choose. Oh, brother. Maybe we should plan to do it during warm weather so I can stay outside. 🙂 Yes, now I can see how that would set all this off as well as my flare of fatigue. Ugh. It’s so hard when mentally I still feel like I can do everything I used to be able to do. Well, reality – I can’t. Yet, “I don’t look like I’m sick”. Okay. Insult to injury, I had to trim our 2 holly and 2 rhododendron bushes today. They collect the trimmings soon, so it had to be done this weekend. Great. And right before an intense performing week. (But good news, I can use stool and stand if I need to, and I will.) Back to the bushes. DH was complaining about how they jut out into the yard too far for him to mow comfortably, so… I had to trim them WAY back. The Rhodies weren’t in need of as much trimming as the holly, naturally, since the holly require more hand strength. He did help me with some of the larger branches I couldn’t get without dragging out the pole trimmer. Sadie was worried that she couldn’t be right there with me. She has been remarkably patient today in waiting for her walk. I need to try to do that right after I finish this post. She’ll be a happy and appreciative pup. She and Rufus did enjoy lots of outside time today, though. I do hope you are feeling a tad better now. We all take what we can get in that arena, don’t we?

    Jennie, thanks for the Sunday wishes 🙂 I do hope yours was a good and restful one.

    Chris, are you still enjoying time at the shed? How I would enjoy that right about now. I would retire to the beach if only I could. 🙂

    Take care, all friends! Time to walk the pup!

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    • Lyn, I do hope some of the info will help. I have several friends with lupus who react to carpet glue, etc. and have to be careful with paint fumes, etc. Personally, I had to give up swimming at our beautiful Olympic sized pool because of the chlorine gas. It made me miserable, with stinging mucosa in the nose and terrible throat burns. Jim mops our basement with bleach because Jake has taken to going down there and I mean going. He doesn’t like to be out in the rain and often can’t find the porch stairs to get back in but can handle the basement stairs as they have indoor/outdoor carpet on them. One does what one can. I guess that’s true for the pups and for us. Sadie, how is she?
      I’m glad you’ll be able to sit on a stool next week. I’m also certain you are looking forward to the performing. I understand your love for using and sharing your splendid talent. Yes, dear…one more thing. I’ve decided it is truly amazing how much we can stretch when we must. I’ve been a bit surprised this past year at how slowly I’ve come back. It’s probably just my age and the multitude of problems that all arrived.
      I was interested to hear about your yard work. Hope you don’t feel it too much tomorrow. Funny your trimming rhodies when ours are just now bursting into bloom. Thankfully we don’t have any holly. They do have it in the Safeway parking lot and I almost scratched the car door the other day when Jim and I went shopping. Seems like a poor choice for a parking lot but beautiful in a home garden. Saw your daffodils on FB…so pretty. Ours are already fading. We had fierce rain and wind yesterday but sunny today and everything is so fresh and spring like.
      I’ll be thinking of you in the coming week and know you’ll be fine as you do what you choose and also must. Love you, Sue

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      • Sue, Sadie is doing very well. She follows me EVERYWHERE. I call her my personal assistant. 🙂 She only has 2 negatives that I can think of – she barks, at everything and despite lots of training, still gets excited and pulls on her leash. It’s a long process. She does really well with Stop and Stay at intersections, and other assorted commands, so I think it is excitement and perhaps a bit of bullheadedness? As for the rhodies, mine are a different kind than yours, with different flowers, I think. They have not started to bud yet. I trim the holly and rhodies in spring, butterfly bushes and assorted larger plants in the fall. Unfortunately, I think we’ve finally lost our last remaining butterfly bushes. We lost one for sure a year ago after that winter (many people lost them that winter). The other 2 were all but gone. The one looks dead this year and the other only has new growth on two small stems. I don’t hold much hope for it. But my lilac that was grown from a cutting from a cutting of my grandmother’s at the old farmhouse has some buds on it! Sadie almost did that one in last summer. She broke off numerous branches, and it wasn’t that big to begin with. Naughty, naughty! I sure hope she leaves it alone this year. Anyway, I guess we’ll see how I am tomorrow. I did walk with Sadie, so hopefully the moving will help. Also sat with the heating pad on my lower back.
        You’ve been through SO much the last year! Really hard to keep bouncing back for sure. I think you’re doing the best you can, and I’m proud of you. Just keep on keeping on. 🙂 So sad to hear about dear Jake. Poor fellow. How old is he by now? Time to relax a bit. Lily curled up on my lap. Good timing.

  35. Well, good Sunday evening to everyone. I hope everyone had a restful Sunday. I didn’t sleep one hour all night and today everytime I tried to read the newspaper I kept dozing off. Wonder why? Lol. Have no idea what kept me up. Wasn’t sick or hurting. Actually I felt pretty good. I was able watch some things on TV I had recorded.
    I was able today to get out my warm weather clothes and bag up the things that were way to big for me now. I have lost a total of 32 pounds since right after Thanksgiving of last year. I guess that is good for 4 1/2 months.
    Chris, the medicine my DH is trying now is Prevastatin. I know it has been around but this is one he has never tried. Your DH might have already tried it. I did some research and looked at some patients reviews who had used it and I have very little hope that my DH will be able to tolerate it. Out of 283 people, only 5 had no side affects. A few more had great success with it bringing down their cholesterol but couldn’t tolerate the side affects. I told him not to read the side affects but just take it and see how he does. I will let you know how it works for him. Hope you have had a good time at your beach house. I pray that when you go home, your dad will be doing ok. How is your DH blood pressure doing? I will continue to pray for him and you my sweet. I hope your tail bone is better.
    Jennie Poo, to answer your question about my sickness episode, no I never found out what caused it. I really believe it was something I had eaten. I am ok now. I am glad you have everything worked out to go get your mom. I know you will both be happy to see each other since the accident. I will be praying for your trip in May when you go. I hope you have a good Monday dear.
    Lyn, sorry you are having such problems with reflux. I do myself but as long as I take my 40 mg. Of Prilosec, I do ok. If I miss one pill I pay for it. About 8 years ago I went for a year getting sick and vomiting all night at least once a month without fail. I had all kind of test and finally my doctor did a test and looked down my esophagus and found I had the silent reflux and it had my esophagus so irritated he thought he was going to have to do surgery. He put me on 40 mg. Of Prilosec 2 times a day. In about a month I was cleared up and take it everyday now. I can only take 1 a day now as my insurance will only pay for 1 a day. For a long time I bought the 20 mg. Over the counter and doubled up. It got to be expensive so I tried 1a day and I do okay. I hope your concerts go well next week and I am glad you can use a stool if you need to. God Bless.
    Tonie, my oh my girl you have been busy. I hope you got to rest up some today. I guess tomorrow will be another busy day. I am so glad that God has brought these people in your life to help you. I do hope everything gets done, including getting a new home moved in, before summer officially starts. That way you can enjoy what has been done and grow your flowers and vegetables and enjoy those. What a big difference since last year. You even have two horses now! God is good and gives us the desires of our heart in His time. We just have to trust Him. Rest tonight dear. Will be praying for good news about home.
    Sue, sweet Sue, I feel so for you. Having been through some of the things you are going through because of the breast cancer, I hurt for you. I understand about the tightness in your chest. Also the tenderness there as well. I feel for your back and the lopsided affect it causes. You mentioned not to long ago about that causing a problem with the scoliosis. I have a major problem with that now and never even thought about it all these years until you mentioned it. I wish so many times I had done a double mastectomy. There is so many people doing that now than they did 14 years ago. My 14 years survivorship is this month on the 26th. I look back and it is amazing to me how far and how many new treatments are out there. More women are being treated as an individual now than just everyone getting the same treatments. I thank God you did not have to have the chemotherapy like I did. There again there is so much medicine now to help patients go through it a little easier. We are getting ready to have our Relay for Life here in Concord on May 2nd. I look forward to it every year. It is the biggest fundraiser for the American Cancer Society each year. I was a team captain for my team for 12 years but had to give it up as it was too much for me. I just enjoy going and being a survivor.
    I hope you get some good rest tonight. It’s about 7:21PM for you. I will be going to bed shortly. I pray tomorrow will be a good day for you.
    I love all of you and I am sending lots of Hugs to each one of you. Donna

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    • Donna, so many things to congratulate you about. First of all the weight loss. That’s terrific and hard to do. Also, congratulations on being a 14 year survivor of breast cancer. I must say I agree with you about the double mastectomy. It would make dressing more simple as well.
      I didn’t have the traditional chemotherapy and took the Tamoxifen because the tumor board advised that it was too much for me with my history and thought the radiation therapy would do it. Am now on the Anastrozole. I’m cautious about it and hope it goes well. The oncologist and the surgeon both told me it increases my chances of survival by 50% with all the positive nodes I had. I’m fortunate to have had no lymphedema thus far. So many other things cause a daily problem, like IBS and the sacroiliac and rectal pain, I don’t think about the cancer too much.
      My goodness but your husband’s cholesterol med does have a high rate of contrary reactions. So many of those drugs are so hard on the liver as well as the muscle fibers.
      Isn’t life just a mess sometimes. Good thing we each have a sense of humor or it would be mighty dark. Life is really filled with so much joy and laughter, I feel for those who are in the dark. Take care now and keep in touch as ever. Sue

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  36. Great lineup! Sadly, it’s so true that as you suffer, mostly in silence, because no one wants to hear what you are going through, there is a lack of understanding because THEY can’t see it.

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    • Brenda, we do seem to live in a callus society these days. Sometimes we also get tired of talking about it or getting any understanding, you know? Glad you enjoyed the blog and hope it made you chuckle a bit. How’re you doing? Fondly, Sue

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  37. HELLO….WELL ALL ARRANGEMENTS MADE, GIVEN MYSELF A MIGRAINE OWING TO VARIOUS PARTIES CHANGING THINGS, BUT NOW ALL GOOD TO GO….BEEN A BEAUTIFUL DAY HERE, AND SET FAIR FOR THE REST OF THE WEEK……..JUST WANTED WISH EACH A PLEASANT MONDAY, AND HOPE YOU ARE ALL OK…….SORRY ITS SHORT, BUT MY HEAD HURTS….MUCH LOVE TO EVERYONE……………….JENNIE XX

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    • Jennie, sorry to hear about the miserable migraine. They do hurt like the devil sometimes. Hope you’re getting some peace and quiet now that things, arrangements are made for your Mom and the trip and you can enjoy as much as the body will allow. Promise me you will listen to your body on this trek, okay? Much love…Sue

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  38. Lyn, I love the way Sadie has moved into your heart and life. She’s such an endearing little thing. Naughty? We know all about naughty around here. George has a mind of his own. Yes, Jake is pathetic and is pretty much limited in where he can go in the house. He’s not always choosy about peeing and tries. He’s 14 years old now. He bumps into you his sight is so poor and his hearing not great, but he isn’t in pain according to the vet and we just try to keep him fed and comforted.
    George had his first professional grooming today due to my life this past year and did well. I asked if she had all her fingers…the groomer, and she laughed. He looks adorable and she said he learns fast. We’ve having a cold rain here and it’s rumored there will be snow up in the mountains.
    I’m not familiar with another kind of rhodie. So many are starting to bloom around here and many look like the blossoming trees due to their size from age.
    Got a bad bout of IBS today. It’s my fault for having a normal dinner last night of fish n’ chips with coleslaw and tartar sauce. Sure was good but it will be plain spaghetti with olive oil, butter. herbs and mushrooms tonight with Parmesan. Hope it’s better by tomorrow because I have PT and hate to miss the torture. Take care this very busy week and love yourself, okay? Love, Sue

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  39. Suzanne, Won’t you be thrilled to see the last of that cold mushy snow and see those seedlings able to go into the ground? Let’s all pray your mammogram is negative. That seems like a long time to wait. We get the results here verbally the next day and a letter within three days. Well, different strokes for different folks, right?
    Hope things are easing up a bit for you with your aunt. I know she has taken a big chunk of your year and strength. Wet here today. Cold for this time of year in OR. All the spring flowers seem to love the rain, however. Do take care dear girl. Did the feeling and problems with the med clear up? Hope so. Love, Sue

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  40. Tonie, sorry your fatigue level is still so high. You have been pushing your limits a bit but yes, we all understand things have to get done. Frustration when they don’t get done can be almost as bad as the fatigue. At least you get a sense of accomplishment with the fatigue. Strange, this way of life, huh? As far as your sis, Judy, do you think she’d go to PT for balance advice? It might help. I know it’s always helped me and still is.
    So cold and wet here I turned on the heated passenger seat for George when I picked him up from the groomer. He loved it. Do take care and take comfort in all you’re accomplishing. Love you, Sue

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  41. Hi all
    Well had some slabs laid today and more calor gas delivered. Just got the double glazing men to come.DH has his teeth splint Wednesday .then we are free to go home when we want.but the weather is so good ,put the sun umbrellas out on verandah today….we just mite stay a little longer
    I’m trying the cimetidine for reflux as the proton pumps set my neuropathy worse.also started again the steroid inhaler…see how they go together for the airways
    Politics is getting so much on the news..oh dear it goes on and on…it set the main ones up on the tv in a compilation of music from there previous speeches ,it was so funny and a nice break from it all
    Got three more weeks to the election
    DHs bp has been down in the day.it just seems to be high first thing
    Dd is away in Budapest for a short break…then she starts a new position when she comes back.
    GS rang up my dad today and was upset as he couldn’t understand him.also my dad has gone so deaf he keeps wanting you to repeat and he has the tv louder than his voice .when I ring he won’t turn the tv down so I have to project my voice which doesn’t help the swollen vocal cords
    He gets a new tv delivered for his bedroom Thursday,so I hope the man who fits it all in can show him it all and how to do it.as he asked for GS phone no. Tonite and it took 20mins for him to write it down and ask me to repeat it..so mite be going back home earlier!
    Ok trying to go back to sleep its 2.20am
    Chris

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    • Chris, I feel your frustration with trying to talk to your Dad on the phone as well as the problems in going to his flat. I am sorry GS is going through some hard times with his GF but it is part of the reality of life. I remember something similar with my son and my Dad. One thing I do know and have observed is that once they older folk is gone, the memories are good ones. My son and I often talk about my Dad and he’s been gone for many years. The bad times seem to fade. Let’s hope the phone is easy to operate. I’m so technically challenged I understand your concerns quite clearly.
      Sounds like your place at the coast is going to be wonderful. What kind of gas is that? The tile work sounds lovely. Umbrellas indicate sun and that’s also good. Is it possible spring has arrived for all of us?
      Cimetidine has been around a long time and is still good. I find the proton pump inhibitors work the best for me, particularly Aciphex. There again, we each are so different. I wonder if your DH changed the times he takes his meds if that would work better. Only you two know for certain. Sounds like your DD is a lucky girl. You’re all so close to Europe it’s a whole different traveling dynamic than for us all the way over here. Well, I think it’s time I got some laundry folded and got on with a semblance of a day. Have PT this afternoon. Later dear girl, Sue

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  42. HI ALL….JUST WAITING FOR FRIENDS TO ARRIVE, THEN THE GUYS GET TO GO AND WHACK A BALL ROUND ACROSS GRASS, AND CHEAT AND SWEAT….THINK THEY CALL IT GOLF.
    CHRIS….GLAD YOU ARE TRYING SOMETHING ELSE FOR YOUR REFLUX, MIGHT HAVE TO GO DOWN THAT ROUTE TOO, MY PUMP INHIBITORS DON’T SEEM TO WORK AS WELL AS THEY USED TO.
    LYN…FORGOT WHAT YOU DID, I KNOW YOU WERE HAVING SIMILAR PROBLEMS.
    SUE…..YES OF COURSE I WILL LISTEN TO MY BODY, I PROMISE, I CAN’T BACK OUT NOW, SO WILL TAKE ALL THE PRECAUTIONS, OK?
    HEADACHE A BIT BETTER, CAN’T TAKE MIGRAINE PILLS AS THE REFLUX WILL BE AWFUL…………HAPPY DAYS
    HOPE YOU ARE ALL DOING OK, AND SO GLAD SPRING HAS COME FOR THOSE WHO HAVE WAITED FOR SO LONG.
    LOVE TO ALL………………..JENNIE XX

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    • Jennie, It seems most of us have GI disorders, huh? It’s all part of the whole with these rheumatoid problems and we each just do the best we can considering all the other conditions. I think it’s a fine thing that the group who share on here each know and learn about themselves as they go along. One thing affects the other…we are all such an interesting and complex mess. I know you know what I mean and then in the midst of all this inner turmoil with our bodies we have to learn how to go on with this thing called life.
      Glad your headache is a bit better and hope it gets more so. Hope DH and friends have a great game today. Sunny here with a cool wind blowing. Have to get ready for PT and folding laundry. Such an exciting life I lead…NOT. Take care dear girl, Sue

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      • HI SUE……YUP IT APPEARS THERE ARE A LOT OF US WITH THE DREADED REFLUX……..GOT ANOTHER HEADACHE, BEEN FILLING IN TAX FORMS…..I REST MY CASE, ANYWAY ALL DONE NOW FOR ANOTHER YEAR, JUST HOPE THEY DON’T COME BACK IN THE POST FOR CORRECTION.
        YES THE GUYS ENJOYED THEIR GAME OF GOLF THANKS, THEY WERE GLAD OF THEIR FISH AND CHIPS WHEN THEY GOT BACK……….HOPE YOU ARE ALRIGHT MY FRIEND AND MANAGING TO SIT IN YOUR GARDEN ….LOVE YOU JEN XX

  43. Good morning all:
    Chris, goodness you have had a busy, but nice vacay from it all. I know your patience is thinning with your Dad, I pray all will be made right. We are just in the beginning of our politics upcoming elections. They are just announcing their candidacy. I am SO not looking forward to all the commercials for a year. Esp Hillary Clinton (ugh). Still coughing and hacking ! All night. Going to pick up some Robitussin today at my grocery stop.
    Yesterday I played lumberjack. Took down all the cedar trees that had popped up along the fenceline. One of them was Brutie’s shade tree. He was funny, laid down under it on the ground. Like he was grieving .
    SO needless to say I overdid it (again). It is raining today and supposed to last the rest of the week. My guy was a no show yesterday, so I reckon I am back to square one again. Work is not for the faint of heart. Hope you all on FB saw the video of Baby and Red. She is amazing in her recovery. I got them both face masks for the flies. I hate seeing them around their eyes, esp Red with his little blind one. I can see their eyes anymore, but I know it will make them happier.
    Lyn, glad you made it thru your performance. Sadie is such a companion for you huh ?
    Jennie, hope your headache gets better today.
    Sue, how are you doing with your pain ? Hopefully getting better.
    Please pray for Ms Millie and her Hubby today. He is finally having the surgery to repair the botched knee replacement. They saw that something is loose in the knee, so may have to take it all out and start over. I didn’t tell her that for fear it will make her worry more. But they need prayers for strength. He is 86 and she is 90. She is pretty feeble but will go overboard for her Bill.
    Must go swim today after groceries. My body needs a good soak in the pool.
    Love to you all
    Tonie
    Lyn, glad

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    • Tonie, Shame on you for cutting down Brutie’s favorite shade tree. Now he’ll have to find a new spot. That reminds me of a story about our house in Visalia, CA where we lived for thirteen years. It was an old Victorian with a picket fence and there was a large, old Sycamore tree outfront and they built the picket fence around it. Always an occasion for looks and laughs. Yes, I saw the horses on FB and they both looked wonderful and so frisky. Red seemed to especially have a good time. I’ve never seen fly masks before and hope they help. How irritating that must be for them to have to combat pesky flies all the time.
      George did fairly well at his grooming session yesterday and now looks less like a Yorkie and more like an Ewok from Star Wars fame. It will grow and I guess the girl had all her fingers when it was over and we’ll count that as a good thing. She was still pleasant when I picked him up and I headed out into the pouring rain. I knew he’d be cold after losing so much hair. He was so glad to be heading home he hardly noticed but the heated seat helped. It’s not every dog that has his own heated or air conditioned seat. Lucky him because his Daddy works so hard.
      I hate that your cough is holding on so much. Also sends chills up my spine to think of you being a lumberjack. So much work can’t be good although I know often, you must. Let us know how the new home search is going. Remember if it doesn’t work out it isn’t meant to be…if it does, wonderful. Love, Sue

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      • Sue:
        Still waiting on a reply on the home. Was supposed to hear something today, but didn’t. So I am just hanging in.
        We got word my brother had a stroke. The one who lives on the hill above me. He is 62. He is not in intensive care, so hoping for the best. Judy and I will go up in the morning. All his kids n grands were there tonight. Actually, when he was down here last Monday helping me, I told Judy it worried me cause his speech was slurred like he had a stroke. So he evidently put off going to the Dr til today. MEN ! Just pray for him please. His wife is not well, and he has to look after her. Gave up ministering to do so.
        Yeah, the thoughts of me with a chainsaw are enough to make you shiver huh ? They were not really big trees, I felled em with a pole saw, so that should tell you something 🙂 It has rained here all day long ! And is not going away for at least 4 more days !! The garden is going to be late getting done this year.
        Take care all
        Love
        Tonie

  44. Hi All; Just dropping by for a minute to say hello! Finally it appears that spring is coming after a long and cold winter! We still have some patches of snow in our back yard but they are decreasing in size with the warm sun, and Teddi and Korry are acting like they have spring fever!!! It will still be a few more weeks for the ice to leave the lake, but we are getting excited about returning to the cottage!
    All of our family were here for Easter Dinner, and although I wasn’t feeling well, the three little girls lifted my spirits. The two families have always sat across the table from each other, but on Easter Sunday the little girls reset the table so they would be sitting together, and although we had their favourite foods, there was more laughing than eating …. everything was funny, and they giggled as only little girls can, and our two grandsons were also on there best behaviour!!! Someone had asked about the Kinder Eggs … they come in two sizes and are hollow chocolate eggs with a toy inside. A great deal of marketing has gone into their sale and there are even videos on YouTube of Kinder Eggs being opened and displaying the different toys inside. They are not just for Easter but sold year round, and of course all the kids think they are the Bees Knees! I came down with a nasty cold last week the day before the infusion of my new drug was scheduled, so it has been postponed for several weeks, so between the cold and the severe RA flare, this has not been a good time for me but I seen Canada Geese resting in a nearby field after their long northern journey so … SPRING is on the way!!!

    Lynn, so sorry about your sore throat and I can’t imagine what could be more upsetting to a singer! I too have had trouble with reflux, but I also have had inflammation in my cricoarytenoid joint. Both DH and I have found raising the head of the bed on blocks really helps our reflux and with a bed skirt, isn’t noticeable. I love how Sadie has become such a big part of your life … I can’t imagine my life right now without Teddi and Korry! Teddi never leaves my side if he knows I am feeling rough … and he always knows!!!

    Sue, I’m sure George is adorable with his new hair do! I hope spring brings new energy and hope to you after a long, painful, winter!

    My hands are telling me it is time to quit so I will talk to others later!

    Love and Hugs … PM Brenda

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    • Pommum:
      When we were in Germany in the 80’s my kids had Kindereggs. These had very small toys in them and the chocolate was less sugary. I can imagine how they have devolped them more. Take care of that Teddi !
      Love
      Tonie

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      • Tonie, I saw about your brother Rocky on FB. I am so sorry and equally sorry he was a typical stubborn man and didn’t give in and go to the doctor sooner. That’s so important in the case of stroke. Please know I will have him in my prayers and his dear wife.
        Sorry you didn’t get the word on the new home but all will be okay. If not this one, another. I don’t have to tell you that.
        Had my first deep tissue massage for 15 very long mins. today. Can’t say it was the most fun I ever had, as she tried to massage the scar tissue out of the pectoralis muscle and front of the shoulder. Felt like I was going to hurl, but you know, it already feels better tonight. We are fortunate to have good health insurance to pay for PT. Many of the stretches I am doing are causing joint pain but that’s part of the healing…I hope. So sore and tired just came home and fell into bed for a couple of hours. I must do this…I must. I am determined to stand up straight and tallish again. Can’t get back those inches from the fractures but can get back better function. Oh this way of life. And there you are with your saw, sawing down trees. Tell Millie we are all praying for her dear Bill and we are. I know how much you love those dear folks. Time for bed now and must put this laptop away. Much love, Sue

    • PM Brenda, always wonderful to hear from you. Sounds like your Easter was full of giggling sounds of small children. Is there anything sweeter? Thanks for explaining the kinder eggs. We will have to look for them around here. Chocolate and toys, now that comes close to giggling children. It is good to hear the snow is melting in Canada and to know you will soon be able to get back up to the cabin. What projects does DH have planned for this summer? I know he must have a plan. I hope you are soon surprised by bulbs popping up and the feel of warm sun on your face. Pray the back is healing and you able to be up more and more which is also my personal wish for both of us.
      Yes, George looks adorable but less like a Yorkie and more like an Ewok. Remember those little furry woodsmen from the Star Wars movies? Do be good to you dear girl. Love, Sue

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  45. Sue
    Calor gas is a bottled gas that runs our CH and cooking and hot water
    We have 2 big bottles in a cupboard outside
    It goes down quite quick in the winter..we use one in three weeks. But CH is on all the time.and I cooked two roasts
    Pommum
    We have kinder eggs here..they started in Germany some years ago…..how high do you put your bed up.ours is on two bricks about four inches,but it doesn’t seem to be working.i read that to sleep on you left side was better.as that’s the way the tube goes into the stomach

    Well it’s been sunny here today and gives it better tomorrow without so much wind.got some washing to do so will get it dry before we go back home…..I hang it on an airer outside

    Tonie
    I’m looking forward to hearing about your new home and all the getting of it
    Jen
    Hope your head is better.i bet your mum is counting the days till she comes to you.
    I bet you are getting stuff all ready for the freezer!!
    DONNA
    Yep my tailbone is gradually improving. Have to restrict myself doing stuff.DH bp seems to be responding it was lower this morning…hope he doesn’t now get side effects..he’s already getting bad cramps in the nite..he eats bananas and drinks tonic water that has quinine in it
    I hope your DH can continue ok on the statins
    Yes that was a lot of weight to loose..well done
    Well gonna try and sleep???
    Chris

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    • Chris, thanks for the explanation about the bottled gas. As far as elevating the head of the bed, we have always done it with pillows banked from the space between the headboard of the bed and the mattress. I eat most of my meals lying down so it can be a problem and I make a point of lots of fluid with my meals. I’m also having more trouble swallowing since radiation burns to the esophagus. I don’t know about that sleeping on the left because I don’t think there is much science behind it. I do find it helps to chew on a tablet that is an after dinner digestive aid. It’s available on Amazon.com and is called American Health chewable original papaya enzyme.
      Do enjoy your time at the coast and know you have our good will with you. Love, Sue

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      • I’ll have a look out for the papaya enzyme in a health food shop
        As I said to tonie ..how do you stay up on the pillows..I’m just no good at it!
        Had to stop the steroid inhaler I think it’s drying up my throat
        good the massage helped it’ll make having it done again easier to accept
        Those burns to your eosohogus….they must be so sore there
        Gonna write at the bottom now
        Chris

    • HI CHRIS…….ARE YOU ENJOYING THIS BURST OF LOVELY APRIL WEATHER….YES WE ARE TOO….GOING OFF TO A NEW BOOK STORE WE HAVE HEARD OF, ITS QUITE A DRIVE, BUT THE LADY WHO RUNS IT IS A VET, AND TREATS SICK ANIMALS FOR FREE FOR THOSE WITHOUT FUNDS…..SUCH A NOBLE THING TO DO, SO WE WANT TO SUPPORT HER IF WE CAN.
      GLAD TO HEAR YOUR TAILBONE IS IMPROVING, AND DH’S B/P IS COMING DOWN…..OK GOT TO GO GET READY NOW…..HAVE A GOOD DAY…..LOVE JEN X

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      • Yea jen the weather has been so good today…but it’s raining Tonite .gives it dull tomorrow and better Friday
        Hope you got some good books
        Going back home tomorrow be there for just short of a week,I think

    • Chris:
      I, like Sue , also prop myself up with pillows. I currently had 4 behind me 🙂 3 featgher pillows and one synthetic. If I have to sleep flat, I have a terrible time with the reflux. It also helps my back to sleep this way.

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      • I prop myself up with pillows at the shed..but I keep slipping down and I wake up on the flat.i use four pillows and some firm seat cusions…how do you stay upright?? It beats me every nite…
        About the mustard tonie…I wonder what sort it is ..the normal mustard we would have here is a colmens mustard which is quite hot…a tablespoon of that in the nite…wow!!
        Yep if something needs doing I can’t stop myself

    • Chris:
      My sister in law and my sister swear by using plain mustard for cramps. Taking a tbls. of it when you get them. Both keep a bottle of it by their bed. Maybe it will help him as well.
      Glad your tailbone is getting better. It is hard to stop doing things isn’t it ? I hate that !
      Do take care
      Tonie

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  46. Good morning all:
    Sue, I am so glad you are feeling results of the massage. I know it must be painful. It makes me remember when my Daddy would have me massage the wound scar in his back. I say in cause he had a chunk of his back blown away in WWII. He liked for me to put lotion on it and massage it in. It hurt but he said it felt better afterwards. I can still feel how it felt on my fingetrtips. Memories.
    I met a gal at the Health fair who does massage, I think I am going to set up an appt with her for a 30 min. I spoke with her at length and I feel like she would understand how to go about it with FMS and RA probs. Could use one this am !!
    Millie called me last eve, Bill came thru the surgery just fine. There was a piece of plastic loose in his leg that was causing all the problems. He gave it to them. The knee is replaced with a new joint and all was going well. She was exhausted but elated that Bill would be better soon. She thanked for the prayers.
    I got a storage system for photos and was going thru another box of them yesterday. SO many memories of years gone by. Children, grandchildren, vacations, weddings, and just wonderful times together. There are individual boxes, so I sorted them out for each child and grandchild to have their own pics. Oh and RODEOS ! I was looking at these pics and I am a pretty good photographer ! 🙂 Now if I print out all my digital photos, ….that will be a job. But I do need to get some of them printed and stored as well. Nothing like holding a photo in your hand. Just like books huh ?
    Well, going to see big brother this morning and see what is going on with him.
    Love to all,
    Tonie

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    • Tonie, glad to hear about Bill, your dear elderly friend, getting through surgery and doing well. He should heal now. How is Millie getting around to visit him?
      Yes, massage is liked by many. I’ve never cared for it because of sore spots for years. My Mom used to come up and grab my shoulder or giving a loving slap on the shoulder and it used to hurt so much. She was so strong. Why not, for you, see if your insurance will pay for a PT. I’m pretty sure they won’t pay for a massage therapist.
      It is fun to go through old photos and the time you’re doing it can go by so quickly as you’re reliving it all as well as making you feel like the years have whizzed by.
      Yes, in regards to your Dad, memories can be funny things and the one’s of tactile moments and even odors can be so stirring. Last night I kept smelling something and finally realized it was me. The PT had used a lanolin mix to massage my chest and the odor brought back memories of my grands as babies as both my daughter and DIL had used lanolin on their nipples while breast feeding. I didn’t know about it when I had my kids. Funny thing, memories, huh?
      Hope Rocky stays on the plus side. Love, Sue

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  47. Hi all, just a quick update on my cholesterol blood work. My doctor said it was excellent! 174 total with good being high and bad being low. So all is good. My DH is taking the medicine for his cholesterol and so far he hasn’t had any side affects. The weather is cool and rainy.I am hurting today. I am not doing anything but lying around.I hope everyone has a good day. I need to fix me something to eat so I can take more medicine.Today is my methotrexate shot day so I will do that later. Just know I am praying for all the needs that have been asked for prayers. I will write more another time. My wrists are hurting bad so I need to stop. LOVE all of you and sending hugs.DONNA

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  48. Jennie, Hope your trek to the bookstore is a good one. What fun. Glad to hear about the spring weather. I have a few plants I need to get into pots. Have you seen the entry on FB about using clean disposable diapers as filling in pots? It looks interesting. Think I will try it. Just take a clean diaper, pour about 4 cups of water in it, pull the filling away from the plastic and mix it into your mulch. It is supposed to cut watering by one half. It works because it holds water via filling and tiny beads. Probably too much fertilizer in used ones…ha, ha.
    Stay well as possible dear girl. Love, Sue

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    • WELL SUE…..I MUST PASS THAT ONE ON TO MY DH, NOT HEARD IT BEFORE, IT WILL BE AMUSING TO WATCH HIM GO IN TO THE PHARMACIE AND ASK FOR A PACKET OF PAMPERS………….
      I HAD FUN AT THE BOOK STORE, SO VERY DIFFERENT FROM THE ONE WE USE NORMALLY, WHICH IS NOT VERY CLEAN AND A BIT SMELLY…THIS ONE IS SPOTLESS, AS ARE THE BOOKS AND STUFF, AND A BONUS, A NICE WEE COFFEE SHOP OPPOSITE….ALL GOOD.
      WHICH REMINDS ME, I KEEP MEANING TO ASK YOU….WHEN YOU FEEL UP TO IT, WILL YOU FINISH THE BOOK YOU WERE WRITING, OR DID YOU ALREADY DO THAT, AND ME BEING ABSENT MINDED FORGOT??
      HOPE ALL IS IMPROVING FOR YOU SUE……I LOVE TO HEAR OF ANY PROGRESS YOU HAVE MADE…LOVE JEN X

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      • Jennie, My internet has been out all night and just came back on. Yes, buying pampers is a unique experience for most of us these days. I was sharing the gardening idea with my son in a conversation yesterday as he loves to garden. I’ve tried to pot the last few small plants on our porch this last two days but got driven back in by a biting, chilly wind. Had to cancel PT today, having IBS flare. Can’t seem to get out of the bathroom. Yuk. Missing it will be okay because I’m doing some massage myself and also forcing myself to do the exercises. It’s so hard when I don’t feel well. It’s always something.
        As far as the book, it’s in limbo as am I. I just don’t feel like it. I can’t even keep my work around here up to par. Feeling a bit worthless and sluggish all the time. Praying for a change…improvement along the way with the PT.
        Glad you liked the new book shop. Sounds like the trip was more than worth it. Charming. Did you buy anything interesting? Do take care and enjoy your weather…Love, Sue

  49. Well going home tomorrow.afew things to attend to.and my dad.
    He is having problems with the phone again..he presses all the wrong buttons and it goes wrong.
    He has one in each room…cordless ones.
    But one has gone wrong it only accepts calls and won’t make one.i think he has put a lock on it and he doesn’t understand when I tell him to press whatever to make it work.so he then swears about it and gets angry with me..then he worries about it and gets confused. His speech is much worse unless he is angry and then it’s brilliant!!
    DH bp is much better but his leg muscles have started aching now and that affects his walking. Also he seems quite depressed..which he was before on these ones
    All good fun innit??
    DONNA
    Your cholesterol reading was around the same as mine.altho we have a different measurement here but it equates to the same tho..mine was 4.5
    Hope you got to have those shots you were due to
    Tonie
    We too must print out our photos .no good all on the computer
    Well it’s raining out and I can hear it on the skylight.i like that so I shall listen to it to go to sleep …hopefully
    Chris

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    • CHRIS…..BAD LUCK WITH TE RAIN, WE ARE STILL FINE AND DRY, BUT TEMPS GOING TO DROP DRASTICALLY FOR THE WEEKEND….HERE WE GO AGAIN.
      DAD STILL MUDDLING UP THE PHONE THEN…..HMMMMM!!!!!!!!
      HOPE YOUR DH IS FINDING SOME SOLUTION TO HIS LEG PROBLEM, DOES THE HEAT AFFECT THEM AT ALL, JUST CURIOUS……..ANYWAY, I HOPE THE WEEKEND IS A GOOD ONE, TAKE CARE AND I HOPE YOU GET SOME SLEEP, JUGGLING YOUR PILLOWS, I HAVE TO DO THAT TOO, BECAUSE OF MY NECK AND BACK PROBS…..AIN’T LIFE GRAND????……………….LOVE JEN X

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  50. Chris, Just do what works for you. I know you’re a restless sleeper because you seem to seldom sleep. I do like a down pillow. They are expensive but at least one is worth it. They don’t move around as much as the foam ones. I also have a small pillow that is also down and it’s about the right side to move to whatever side you lie on. It’s also a great little travel pillow, neck pillow, etc. We have a gelfoam cover over a foam mattress and that all might help. I do think the enzyme would help.
    So you have to go home for awhile? Duty calls, huh? Hope DH is doing well. Is DD back in country yet? Your weather so often sounds like ours with frequent rain and interspersed sunshine. At least we don’t have water rationing and nature is always green unlike the conditions in CA where we still have so many friends and family. Love you, Sue

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